Gay Anal Sex: becoming as Defined?
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Kinsey Institute Studying Unconscious in Human Sexuality.
Conscious / Unconscious / Orgasms

The erotic is a source of tremendous knowledge and power... Sexual desire springs from deep and complex sources.... (Rofes, 1996: 105).

Historically For Many Adolescent Males:Masturbate / Orgasm / Super Guilt. Scenario to be repeated, no matter what were the beliefs learned if one did this. How does this work? Chemical cocktails in brain? But 'something' within 'saying': "Time For Sex!" Socially programmed "conscious" powerless to stop it, but clicks in after orgasm - Guilt Time & Promises!

Ditto for many males reporting on their former fight against "Homo Desires"! Excellent way to get what one wants: Get drunk, then say "Not my fault. Not real me! Out of character!" SO: Everytime 'inner one' says "Time for Sex with Male," the situation set up to make this possible.

Drugs and alcohol were also mentioned as playing a role in unsafe sex. 'When I get drunk and horny, all bets are off... I am unable to say no when real horny, and attracted to a guy, or when drunk' (Johnston, 1995: 196). SO: Everytime 'inner one' says "Time for Unsafe Sex with Male," the situation set up to make this possible. (Noted by Odets, 1995: 219.)

It makes sense according to this theory that in 'explaining' unsafe sex my interviewees should judge unsafe sex practiced by others as evidence of character flaws - irresponsibility, stupidity, sexual incontinence, low self-esteem, self-destructiveness - but judge unsafe sex practiced by themselves as largely influenced by circumstances - forced sex, intoxication, the influence of intimate relationships or 'hot' partners (Johnston, 1995: 198).

I.E., maybe choose one who will 'force' you do do what you desire to do (then not my fault!), or get drunk / take drugs (not my fault), or chose partner causing overwhelming feelings (lost my mind!). Not My Fault? Maybe way of dealing with what one was always 'powerless' to stop - as with masturbation in adolescence.

"The Language of Love: Other reasons for experiencing difficulty in making changes can lie in the emotional meaning that certain sexual acts have... 'When he sucks, he insists that his partner come in his mouth: 'If you don't swallow it, you haven't given him anything'" (Prieur, 1990: 113).

From One "Oz" Episode (HBO) - The African-American (Harold
Perrineau in the role of Augustus Hill) who makes commentaries: The issue of "half-truths" is noted, and he asks why half-truths are not called "half-lies"? In the next commentary, he states something like: "Now love, the ultimate half truth!" Human often use to word "love" in such as way as to end up saying: "I do not love you anymore." Maybe, they never "loved" the individual to begin with.

Gay Anal Sex: becoming as Defined?
Kinsey Institute Studying Unconscious in Human Sexuality.

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