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USA:
- In August, 1999, a 31-year-old female informant who moved to Georgia
in 1998 wrote: "In case you're wondering why I am intrigued by this subject
matter - I, myself, have lost 3 male friends to suicide and personally
contemplated the act seriously after the death of my best friend in 1994.
Mike K. (CA, grew up upstate NY) was 22, a Navy Seal.. his folks refused
to even consider the possibility of his homosexual tendencies. John V.
(St. Louis, MO) was 26, "out," and an active member in a local gay group...
John F. was 25, an accomplished artist/carpenter... (OH when he died, originally
from upstate NY) It was suspected that John loved Sean and had been rejected
by him... - An American Grade 9 boy commits suicide at school. Only two
individuals knew he was gay and they did not reveal the boy's secret: Dead
Gay Kids Don't Talk, but.... Adolescent Sexual Orientation and Suicide Risk: Evidence From a National Study (Full Text). - AMA Hopes to Reduce Suicide Among Gay Youth. - Miguel's Story
(Must Scroll): "I met Miguel when he was seventeen years old and
shortly after his third suicide attempt. His story is all too familiar
amongst gay and lesbian youth that find themselves in a world of
exclusion, heartless ridicule and vicious abuse..." - Victimization for sexual orientation increases suicidal behavior in college students.
Rev.
Peter Lau (Sacramento):
"And simply because he discovered that he was a homosexual person, he committed
suicide. I believe he's an Asian. Knowing that, coming from an Asian background,
I understand the kind of pressure that this kind of -- I would say, something
unbelievable, unbelievable that something like this can happen to him and
he just cannot accept that. And then I believe later I read similar news
like that as another young person committed suicide because of that. Then
I began to say to God that there must be another way to deal with this.
We cannot just let people commit suicide because they discover that they
are homosexual people." - Some of the people FUAH has supported and worked with: a mother whose lesbian daughter committed suicide.
USA:
- Suicide
of a Washington bisexual youth, May, 1995. - Gay
suicide after becoming part of a gay community. - At
the age of 17, Tom Beddingfield attempted suicide soon after his
boyfriend had committed suicide. - Young,
gay and scared to death at school (CNN).
USA:
- Teen
turns to suicide to end nonstop torment
(Robbie Kirkland). - The
Robbie Kirkland Suicide Story. - Robbie
Kirkland "Remember Me!" - Robbie Kirkland Memonial. - Robbie's Story: How A Fragile 14-Year-Old Boy Was Crushed In His Struggle To Accept Being Gay. - A Mother Speaks Out.
USA:
- Just
the facts: on gay, lesbian, and bisexual students and schools [a place
of abuse] made available by GLSTN. (Alternate
Link) - A
16-year-old Miami Gay school dropout: "I would go to gay bars because it
was the only place I could find community. I was feeling stupid and with
no future. I did a lot of drugs. I tried to commit suicide twice."
USA:
- The
first openly gay (newly graduated) police officer in Philadelphia - Thomas
G. Kalt Jr. - commits suicide (January, 1998) at the age of 26 (Must Scroll).
- Death of Philadelphia Policeman Spurs Coverage of the Blue Closet..- Philadelphia: First Gay Cop Recruit is Suicide.
USA
- From the Past:
Sandy Tipper, the author of Exodus: Coming out as a faith journey,
reports on his two suicide attempts: religious beliefs are implicated.
-
The
well known gay author and activist, Larry Kramer, attempted suicide in
1953 when he was at Yale University. - The
founder of the Metropolitan Community Church, Troy Perry, attempted suicide
after being deserted by his lover. (Related
Information: 1, 2, 3) - Brian
McNaught, the godfather of gay sensitivity training, attempted suicide.
-
Suicide
Attempters & Completers were not uncommon for GB male students at Harvard
University. Examples given. - American
born film director reports having been thrown out of house at age 18, working
as a prostitute throughout the U.S., "and ended up in a psychiatric ward
after a suicide attempt N/A." - George
Whitmore: Whitmore wrote of his own three attempts at suicide,
the first when he was only seventeen. In one attempt, he overdosed on drugs
prescribed to "calm" him. Suicide was something, he says, that he applied
himself to "with dedication... Like so many others. I was doing everything
I could not to come to terms with an identity. I'd been carefully taught
to abhor." Drugs,
suicide attempts, and risky sex (Not Available).
USA:
Utah: - "I
am glad to hear that Earl Cherry and Jeana Berube will be making a video
to help prevent youth suicides in Utah." - (Salt Lake Tribune,
June 7, 1998) - "But unlike KUED's local program on the problem a while
back, this video will hopefully address the suicide risk for gay and bisexual
youth - the highest for all risk groups." - Jacob
Orosco commits suicide. - Matis
wrote in his suicide note, which was read at the memorial, that he first
realized he was gay at age 7. - "I
could be your son": Letter by gay youth in Salt Lake Tribune -
reporting more than 4 suicide attempts. - Despite
small introads of tolerance, harassment of young gays and lesbians continues
in public high schools.
USA
Mormon Church / University History - An ongoing problem. From the
1997
lecture, "Private
Pain, Public Purges: A History of Homosexuality at Brigham Young University,"
delivered by Connell O'Donovan in 1997 at the University of California,
Santa Cruz. "In this 1975 article, McQueen reported that five Gay men he
had known at BYU had gotten caught in the Purge of '75, were coerced into
therapy, expelled from BYU, outed by church officials, and then excommunicated.
Rather than face the bigotry of family, friends, church, and state, each
one committed suicide.[17] Another man who was caught in that purge remembers
that a BYU professor shot and killed himself that year after being entrapped
at a local off campus restroom.[18] Local police and other agencies as
well got involved in the purge as it spilled over into 1976. Another male
student, after being arrested at a highway reststop (known affectionately
as the Blow-n-Go), took a bottle of aspirin to kill himself. He was taken
to Utah Valley Hospital where the medical personnel there recognized the
suicide attempt and contacted BYU Security immediately. BYU Security, who
had a file on him because of his arrest at the rest stop, then outed the
man to his bishop and wife. - Legacies,
a documentary by Sean Weakland: "We had several people who
committed suicide during the therapy. We had three different people who
hung themselves in the Harris Fine Arts Center on BYU campus. In Mormon
theology, you will be eternally punished for committing suicide. If you
die as a homosexual, you will be punished all the worse."
Gay
Mormon hoped suicide would help change church (February, 2000):
"In the note Matis urges his parents to use his death to teach other church
members and church leaders 'the true nature of homosexuality.' ...'I implore
the students at BYU to re-assess their homophobic feelings. Seek to understand
first before you make comments. We have the same needs as you. We desire
to love and be loved. We desire to live our lives with happiness. We are
not a threat to you or your families. We are your sons, daughters, brothers,
sisters, neighbors, co-workers and friends, and most importantly, we are
all children of God,' he wrote in the letter to the Daily Universe." -
Affirmation
- Virtual Memorial for Gay Mormon Suicides. - Queer
Mormons - Between a Rock and a Hard Place.
Aaron's
Story: "Back at Church,
the word got out that I was homosexual. I was not longer allowed to be
around children, prepare sacraments, or pray though I had done nothing
wrong. People became scared of me, and longtime friends refused to associate
any longer. The psychiatrist at this point told me to try electroshock
therapy. He said in severe cases it was the only way. I refused. The Church
excommunicated me at this point. Even though they knew I had done nothing
sexual, they put me on trial and questioned me. I was shocked—they probed
me with sexual questions of things I had never heard of. I was kicked out
forever with a letter and warning that said I was outside the Church's
reach. Because I once held the priesthood, I now was a candidate for Outer
Darkness. I then came out, 7 years ago. I am so glad I have. My life is
so much better than ever before. I no longer struggle with my sexuality
because I know who I am. Sadly, a friend who was in the same exgay program
committed suicide after 2 years of electroshock. He had burns on his arms
where they would shock him for showing sexual response to pictures. They
even had him get married and have children to prove his straightness. Instead,
he was visiting parks and alleys for sex. He injected himself with drugs
and left behind two beautiful young daughters. I could have been him."
Living Outside the Lines: A Story of Personal Discovery and Self-Acceptance:
"John's suicide brought clarity to my life and convinced me that it was
time to stop waffling. How many more Johns were out there? How many
Janes? I knew there were others in the world just like me who struggled
to fit in but did not know how to. They needed to know that they were
not the only ones. I had an ethical responsibility to come out and to
live my life openly. If John had known there were others like him,
perhaps he would have opted to talk instead of taking his life. It was
too late for John but I could do something for others, starting with
myself. I was afraid, but my fear was irrelevant. I had to move
forward, come out of the closet, and make a difference in the world."
USA
- A Three-Part Examination of GLB Suicide Problems by Outlines Magazine
- Suicide
A Community Epidemic, A Community Solution. Part One: Death and
dropout of gay and lesbian teens blights America's school system. -
High
School Confidential. Part Two: Suicide and Depression Among High
School Age Gay and Lesbian Youth. - Part
Three: The Grown Ups.
USA
- In
the case of Jamie Nabozny, now 21, the epithets began in 7th grade and
escalated into a daily routine of homophobic abuse that led him to attempt
suicide twice and to drop out of high school in his junior year.
(Information
related to Jamie Nabozny.) - Nabozny v. Podlesny - U.S. Court of Appeals, Seventh Circuit:
"Toward the end of the school year, the harassment against Nabozny
intensified to the point that a district attorney purportedly advised
Nabozny to take time off from school. Nabozny took one and a half weeks
off from school. When he returned, the harassment resumed, driving
Nabozny to attempt suicide. After a stint in a hospital, Nabozny
finished his eighth grade year in a Catholic school..." - Who's at Risk? Gay and Lesbian Youth.
The American Midwest (1998):
A live-in observer the the GLB youth situation reports
on an "at least bisexual" male youth who committed suicide after being
placed in jail. Another youth "asphyxiated himself with a car in the garage"
after it was believed that he had become "comfortable with his sexuality,"
which included having visited a local gay group.
Texas:
Gay
Youth at Risk: "At
five years old, I knew I was sexually attracted to men. I internalized
all of the negative images surrounding homosexuality; at 18, I attempted
suicide in my parent's home. Right after that I left. I still carry the
wound; no one should have to believe like I did that they are the only
one in the world." - Texas
Suicide-Prevention Panel Makes Recommendations N/A: "The commission
urged... special programs to reach out to groups often overlooked in suicide
prevention programs, including the elderly, ethnic minorities, youths,
gays, lesbians and the homeless." A suicide Prevention Tookit (PDF Download):
"Within the larger community many populations exist that may be at
special risk for suicide, such as women in certain age groups, men, the
elderly, people from different ethnic groups,
gay/bisexual/lesbian/transgendered people, and youth."
Success Stories - McAllen, Texas:
"In May of 2002, a letter arrived at the ACLU from McAllen, Texas, a
small town near the Mexican border. Crystal Mendoza and Orlando Campa,
two high school students, needed help. Students in their school had
been harassed for years, and school leaders did nothing to stop it.
Then that spring a gay student committed suicide because he couldn't
take it anymore. For the first time ever, classmates at the school got
together to talk about the harassment and other LGBT concerns..."
Colorado: Suicide Risks for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender teens
(Youth Risk Behavior Survey): LGBQ teenagers are at significantly
greater risk for suicide attempts than heterosexual teens. In Boulder
County, 44% of LGBQ youth said they’d attempted suicide, compared to
13.5% of heterosexual youth. - Suicide-prevention effort focuses on gays.
New
York: Much of my church work was near New York City, and on Times Square
I found my first friendships with a variety of gay males - all of whom
are gone now due to suicide, hate crimes and AIDS. (From: Celebrating
Howard's Lifetime of Ministry; My Life Began with Stonewall and PLGC N/A
(Alternate
Link) by the Rev. Howard Warren. Must scroll to locate reference).
- In
the Closet or Out on the Edge: Teens at Greater Suicide Risk: "James,
a bisexual teen, says he’s tried to kill himself twice. Every day at school,
he is taunted with "fag," "gay," "queer" and other names too ugly to mention."
- Predicting the Suicide Attempts of Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Youth (PDF Download).
Pennsylvania:
"In a May 31 article distributed by Knight-Ridder, Wilkes-Barre (Penn.)
Times Leader staff writer Bob Nocek profiled a self-identified "gay jock
teen" in Pennsylvania. The piece begins: "His parents had finally gone
to sleep, and now it was time for Greg Congdon to die... For the second
time in barely more than a month, Greg Congdon, 17 years old, wanted to
end his life... After that attempt, Greg admitted to the emergency room
doctor that he was gay, and subsequently told his parents, who were supportive,
but things at school were more difficult." (From: 2) Greg
Congdon: a Leader for our Times. (Alternate
Link) Select: "misc news, 06/22/99:
(15K)". Must scroll to locate reference.) - Death
without justice: after their teen son committed suicide in a panic,
Pennsylvania parents sued the police who'd threatened to out him. The
resulting court case is a landmark for gay and lesbian privacy rights.
Illinois
- Chicago:
Suicide
A Community Epidemic, A Community Solution - Part One: Death and dropout
of gay and lesbian teens blights America's school system . - Letter
from Asian American 17-year-old coming out: "Denying who I am was the
worst form of torture. I thought if I came out I'd lose my parents, friends,
everything. I constantly thought of suicide. Hiding almost destroyed me."
Ohio:
"For defying gender norms so blatantly she paid the price at school. Classmates
taunted and ridiculed her. The problems grew worse when she entered 8th
grade. Life became miserable for her. 'It wasn't just guys, it was girls
too that were harassing her,' said her mother. Nicole kept her problems
to herself. Even school officials were unaware of the severity of the situation.
On 13 Oct 98 Nicole could take it no longer. She killed herself using her
father's .22 rifle. (From: Gender-Questioning
Teen Suicide in Cleveland N/A. (Alternate
Link) Select: "gender questioning teen suicide, 03/28/99") - A
Commission on Youth and Suicide? Will GLB issues be included? "According
to an article in the Akron Beacon Journal (February 15, 1998), Ford said
that the inclusion of gay and lesbian youth is in response to the ABJ's
recent Suffering in Silence series about glbt youth in the Akron-Canton
area, many of whom tried to commit suicide. To date, the bill has bipartisan
support with approximately 25 co-sponsors." - The
Robbie Kirkland Pages - Ohio Paper Tells Tragic Story of Gay Teen Suicide. - A
[gender nonconformable] teen-age girl's battle for acceptance ends in suicide N/A
California:
"Spahr
had hoped that Robin Reed, a sophomore at Petaluma High School, would be
the last gay teen suicide in town. He believes, however, that two other
gay teens have since killed themselves." (From: Teen's
fate ignited activist (Must scroll to locate reference). - Honoring
Robin Reed, a 15-Year Old Suicide. - Gay
Teens in School Focus of Weekly Newsmagazine Segment. Slurs like "faggot,"
"dyke" or "That's so gay," are sometimes not readily addressed or put a
halt to, said Highlands Elementary teacher Eric Heins. "Sometimes I've
heard students say that teachers just seem to ignore them (slurs) or pretend
not to hear." Lauren, a San Leandro High School dropout... has also
contemplated, and attempted, suicide. - Bay
Area gay man's suicide may be basis of TV movie. - Décès
mystérieux de deux lesbiennes en Californie.
Teen Line Reaches Out To LGBT Youth (Word Download):
"California children are inheriting a society more multicultural and
multiracial than ever before witnessed in modern history. With
these gifts of diversity, there sometimes comes ugly intolerance of
differences. Gay and lesbian youth are often at higher risk for
emotional problems, abuse, and neglect – not because of their sexual
orientation but because of such intolerance, ignorance, and some
people’s inability to accept individual differences. LGBTQ youth face
great difficulties growing up in a society where homophobia and
heterosexism run rampant. Many may feel isolated at home and within
their communities." - Another dead gay designer.
Louisiana: Sadly, Gay Anti-Discrimination Laws Are Needed in Louisiana: "Sen. Lynn Dean, R-Braithwaite, had told a Senate committee of personal knowledge of a number of gays who committed suicide."
Massachusetts:
From The
Unofficial Site of the... Massachusetts Governor's Commission on Gay &
Lesbian Youth - Availability of all related Reports/Documents, many
with suicidality information. - Massachusetts
Governor's Commission on Gay & Lesbian Youth. - The "suicide"
section in Prevention
of Health Problems Among Gay & Lesbian Youth: Making Health & Human
Services Accessible and Effective for Gay & Lesbian Youth
(August,
1994). - Countering the Backlash Against Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and
Transgender Students, Families, and Staff in Minnesota Schools: A
Primer on the Minnesota Family Institute’s Anti-LGBT Agenda for Public
EducationPlus: Steps Toward Stopping the Backlash ( PDF Download). - Study Says Perils of Adolescence Greater for Gay Teens.
Minnesota:
- Gay
youth at higher risk of suicide. - Study
Confirms High Suicide Risk in Gay Youth. - Youth at risk - statistics of suicide risks among gay teenagers. - The relationship between suicide risk and sexual orientation: results of a population-based study (Full Text). - Minnesota's GLBT Students.
Washington:
- Safe
Schools Coalition of Washington: Suicide.
- A
summary of Youth Risk Behavior Survey Results relating to GLB adolescent
suicide problems (available as PDF Download): Seattle, Massachusetts,
Vermont, Minnesota. - Gabi Clayton's Resources - GLBT Suicide.
Virginia,
USA: Out Of The Closet And Out Of The Family: - At
the hospital a doctor observes the following after a closeted lesbian youth
had attempted suicide: "He looked at his parents with hatred in his eyes
'my sister who I love could have died today. You sound as If you would
rather her be dead than gay.'" The doctor then told his "significant other"
about the event who, in turn, recalled his own problems as a youth: "Before
long I was at the top of a huge hill, and instantly I knew that I no longer
wanted to live. I pressed the gas as hard as I could. I saw where there
was a sloping hill on the side of the road and steered the car off the
road. When I saw a large tree in the cars pathway I closed my eyes and
felt at peace for the first time in years." - Suicide of two young girls highlights the hurdles faced by gay youth.
Georgia: Youth Suicide Prevention (Word Download from Atlanta's YouthPride.org): For many years, we have known that young people, particularly GLBTQ youth, are at an increased risk of committing suicide... A Gay Teen Suicide Note
(Must Scroll). Introduction to Suicide Note: "The following suicide
note was written by Steven, a gay 16-year-old high school student.
After he wrote this note he attempted suicide by taking an overdose of
medication. He survived. He was hospitalized, treated, and not long
after his suicide attempt, moved with his family to another state.
Steven was suffering from severe depression when he wrote this note.
Anyone who was mistreated, bullied, threatened, and emotionally
tortured like Steven could very easily become severely depressed - and
suicidal. The note has been left intact, complete with misspellings,
grammatical errors, and profanity, except for inserting "[name
removed]" in the place of some names. Steven's suicide note is
extremely disquieting to read. And it is one more reminder of the
outrageous bullying LGBTQ youth endure."
Black Church Summit Takes Stand Against Anti-Gay Discrimination:
"Another example of changing attitudes and principled stands among the
participating clergy was Rev. Ken Samuel, pastor at the Victory for the
World church in Stone Mountain, Georgia. Samuel also used to condemn
homosexuality from the pulpit, but he says that he changed his views as
he recalled a childhood friend who committed suicide because he felt
ostracized by his church for his homosexuality. When Samuel began to
preach against anti-gay discrimination, he lost about half of the 5,000
members of his mega-church, but he stood his ground."
North Carolina: Bad Days For Gay Teenagers:
"Someone I know committed suicide this past Father's Day. His dad had
kicked him out of the house because he was gay. He was just a kid, a
teenage boy, on the way to becoming a young man. He liked horror and
action movies. He moved around and lived with friends. He worked
various low-income jobs to get by. On Father's Day, he decided there
was no place for him in this world, so he killed himself."
Michigan:
Pastor Youngchild (MCC
Church, Battle Creek, Michigan) reports on his experiences with
being contacted by GLB youth in a
letter ot the Battle Creek Inquirer (Aug. 22, 1999): "...within
the first 6 months alone of SOCMCC's existence, 5 different teenagers put
out the effort, borne of desperation, to contact me and discuss their feelings...
their experiences of discovering their gay or lesbian or bisexual orientation...
and most pointedly their experiences of hatred and even violence being
directed at and against them in our Battle Creek Public School system,
not only by a number of students but even by some teachers, simply for
being "queer." Five kids in our first 6 months, after 15 years of
silence in my previous ministry, because we appeared safe enough to them
to seek out. Three of those teens had attempted suicide. One
of them had tried three times.
Alaska: Alaska Suicide Follow-back Study Final Report: Study period September 1, 2003 to August 31, 2006 - 426 suicides (PDF Download): "4% were involved in a homosexual relationship." Note: Most homosexual people may not be in relationships.
Guam:
Pinhey
TK, Millman SR (2004).
Asian/Pacific
Islander Adolescent Sexual Orientation
and
Suicide Risk in Guam. American Journal of Public Health,
94(7): 1204-1206.
(Abstract)
Full Text:
PDF
Download.
The Odds
for GB Males Attempting Suicide in the Past year is About Five Times
Greater than Odds For Other Males. Estimated by Web Page
Author: Risk Ratio = 3.2 - 43.5% of GB males attempted
suicide,
versus 13.5% for other males. For all Males: 14.5%.
3.5% of
674 males studied = GB Males
Hawaii:
- Island
Voices: Gay Youth Still at Risk - by Kauanoe Bombard (1998).
Canada:
Reaching
Out: A Report on Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Issues in Canada. Prepared
for the United Church of Canada, EGALE. "As a society, we have
been slowly killing these children over a period of years. With their suicides,
they are simply finishing the job we started." - In
Canada, a bright and diligent 14-year-old student leapt to his death from
a bridge. He left a seven-page suicide note saying he was killing himself
because his classmates tormented him by calling him "gay" or "faggot".
Western
Canada:- "..the
life I lived as a gay man was too disappointing and held too much tragedy.
Of my six other friends, two died of AIDS related illnesses, one of suicide,
and another attempted suicide." - Suicide
of an Alberta gay teenager. - Canada:
Generally homonegative environments (including in schools) are described
leading to many problems for GLBT adolescents, including suicidal problems.
- Social
Determinants of Suicide Attempts in a Cohort of Young Men Who Have Sex
With Men (PDF Download).(Related Published Paper: Correlates of suicide attempts in an open cohort of young men who have sex with men.)
Calgary,
Canada (From the files of Pierre Tremblay): Five parents
of male adolescents who had committed suicide (within about a one-year
period) were part of a group - SPAN - concerned about the youth suicide
problem. Two youngest boys (about age 13) had a history of gender nonconformity
and related peer problems. One hung himself in jail after having been arrested,
and after having become a clone who was not feminine-like; his mother
reported that he had been in the "feminine" category since a very young
age. A CTV's W-5 program reported that the other suicide victim was deemed
"a sissy" by peers and was treated accordingly. A 17-year-old male
suicide victim was discovered to be homosexually oriented from a female
friend, and he was definitely a Save-The-World
kid given the information supplied by his mother. The fourth was Bobby
Steele, and Information was not solicited or received on the fifth
suicide victim. Near the end of 1996, I learned about the suicide of a
male youth soon after he had made contact with a GLB youth group
(A related
Article, but Bobby's name is not mentioned.). In 1997, I met a 20-year-old
gay male who had just come out and was seeking a relationship with someone.
He met a gay male, became lovers, and they moved to a location a few hundred
miles from Calgary. When he returned, he reported that his boyfriend had
attempted to kill him, after he had expressed a desire to end the relationship.
He had done this by driving his vehicle into an 80-foot ravine, but both
survived. If they had died, however, it may have resulted in the belief
that they committed suicide. In August 1998, I learned about a 35-year-old
Vancouver gay male (schizophrenic, but did not apparently have suicidal
problems) who committed suicide by exiting from a 8th-floor window. A number
of factors may have been implicated in this suicide, including the end
of a relationship with another gay male (I have known for 12 years) about
a month before the suicide, but he was not HIV-positive. I recently learned
that he had gone to a hospital about two hours before his death but a lack
of space precluded his admission.
From
Lloydminster, Alberta, via Edmonton's
GLB Times. Ten magazine: Often enough someone knows about the homosexual
orientation of a suicide victim:
"Dear Editor... That first night of my stay in North Battleford, I was
stunned to learn that I was only the second of six SUICIDE/ATTEMPTS for
Lloydminster. It was disconcerting to find that two were successful, one
of them being a guy I had slept with on a regular basis." Information supplied
about another suicide known to him: "While I recovered, another young man
took his own life just ten days ago. It would seem that his farewell note
said it all too clearly for him "that there was nothing gay about being
GAY!" - Being
Gay in Rural Alberta: "I would still be drinking a lot. I would
very much be avoiding (the issue)," he says, stating in all seriousness
that, "Suicide was an option."
British
Columbia: - BC
Teen Suicide Aftermath: Conflict Ensues Over Prevention N/A.
- B.C. Study
Shows Gay Youth Face High Suicide Risk (June 14, 1999). - Study: Lesbian Teens More Likely To Attempt Suicide. - Focus on the Family distorts work of University of British Columbia researcher. - Sexual Orientation, Risk and Resilience Study. - Proposed Framework for GLBT Youth Suicide and Abuse Prevention (PDF Download).
Maritime
Provinces: - High
school confidential: Gays and lesbians in Nova Scotia high schools.
- New
Brunswick teachers have decided to fight homophobia in the province's schools.
Quebec:
- Déficiente,
la prévention du suicide chez les gais: "Si l'on souhaite
un jour franchement s'attaquer à la question du suicide au Québec,
il faudra commencer par cerner l'une de ses cibles les plus vulnérables,
les homosexuels." Préfère-t-on
encore les voir morts ? ou Le suicide chez les jeunes qui vivent l'homosexualité.
- Le
suicide chez les gais et lesbiennes Suicide-Action Montréal s'implique
davantage. - Le
phénomène du suicide au Québec et l'homosexualité:
"On ne peut parler d’homosexualité sans mentionner l’homophobie.
On sait maintenant avec certitude que le fait d’avoir à vivre le
harcèlement répété des homophobes à
leur endroit est une cause très importante de tentative de suicide,
chez les jeunes garçons en particulier. L’homophobie est très
répandue : un autre problème de société." -
L’urgence d’agir: La prévention du suicide chez les personnes homosexuelles:
Une question de santé mentale: Rapport d’un groupe de réflexion
initié par Gai Écoute (PDF
Download)
Quebec
was the first major jurisdiction in North America (province, state, or
country) to include "sexual orientation in their charter of rights (1977).
Homophobia and related abuses remain rampant, however, as reported in Quand
l'autre en soi grandit: les difficultés à vivre l'homosexualité
à l'adolescence - Bill Ryan et Jean-Yves Frappier (L'adolescence:
une réalité méconnue). French Canadian GLBT adolescents
have al the problems of their English counterparts, including attending
highly homo-negative schools where administrations have gone as far as
stating: "We do not want any homosexuals here!" "Peu après, une
travailleuse sociale contactée par Pierre et sa famille recevra
le même type de réponse de la part de la direction de l'école:
"On ne veut pas d'homosexuels ici!" Quebec and Alberta have a history of
having the highest youth suicide rates in Canada. - Suicide
an ongoing issue in the gay community. - L’homosexualité
vue par les Québécoises et les Québécois:
Les trois quarts de la population se disent ouverts et tolérants.
- Suicide
and GLB Youth - A document prepared by Project 10 of Montreal exploring
the psycho-social and counselling issues related to suicide among gay,
lesbian and bisexual youth N/A (PDF Download Available).
Avril
2002 (Must Scroll): "Un
sondage en ligne réalisé par Citegay.com propose quelques
données chiffrées sur la perception de l'homosexualité
durant l'adolescence. Sur 6308 votes, 5,8% considèrent que la perception
de leur homosexualité les ont amené à tenter de se
suicider, 10,4% disent avoir envisagé le suicide. La perception
de leur homosexualité fut une cause de souffrance pour 54,1% ( soit
3410 personnes). Pour seulement 12,6% de personnes participant au sondage,
elle fut source d'épanouissement. Pour 10,7 %, la perception de
leur homosexualité durant leur adolescence leur fut indifférente...
Qui oserait dire que l'homosexualité ne pose pas problème
chez les jeunes, et qu'une "homosexualité" traitée à
l'école n'est pas une urgence sociale?" - L’homosexualité:
facteur de risque, oui ou non? - Adolescence
et homosexualité: souffrance, tabou social et inertie éducative:
"...ton homosexualité...a été une cause
de souffrance: 53.4%"
Mort
ou Fif: Contexte et mobiles de tentatives de suicide chez les adolescents
et jeunes hommes homosexuels ou identifiés comme tels. Excerpts:
Nicolas
était depuis des années la cible de propos blessants et homophobes...
- Les
adolescents homosexuels: profils et scénarios: Deux profils.
- Dans
« Mort ou fif » (« fif » est l'équivalent
de « pédé » en québécois), après
avoir recueilli des témoignages de jeunes homosexuels qui parlent
de leurs tentatives de suicide, le chercheur québécois Michel
Dorais analyse le motif et le contexte de ces actes de désespoir.
- Homsexualité
et Suicide: Michel Dorais: Mort ou fif: La face cachée du suicide
chez les garçons. - État de la question et pistes de
prévention: Synthèse de la journée d’étude
organisée le 17 juillet 2001 (PDF
Download): Les jeunes gays et le suicide, Michel Dorais. - Mort
ou fif: "Tous les jeunes qui découvrent leur homosexualité
ne font pas une tentative de suicide. Mais cette circonstance multiplie
par 16 le risque de passage à l’acte. Il n’y a rien d’étonnant
à cela, tant la stigmatisation sociale est encore forte concernant
cette orientation sexuelle. Chaque année, des dizaines de jeunes
continuent de mourir parce qu’ils se croient seuls au monde ou monstrueux
et sont victimes de l’intolérance, de l’incompréhension et,
pour tout dire, de la bêtise de leurs contemporains..."
Le
rejet social tue parfois: Conférence sur le suicide et les
jeunes hommes, le mercredi 14 février, au Grand Salon du pavillon
Maurice-Pollack. "La conférence du Groupe de prévention du
suicide, intitulée: ""Quand t'es seul au monde": rejet social et
suicide chez les jeunes hommes"..." - Masculinisme
et suicide chez les hommes. - Suicide:
"J'entends montrer dans ce bref article que les jeunes qui vivent l'homosexualité
présentent de multiples facteurs de risque en ce qui concerne le
suicide. Bien sûr, cela ne signifie pas que tous les jeunes qui vivent
l'homosexualité ou qui s'identifient comme étant homosexuels
deviennent tous suicidaires, mais que cette population présente
des caractéristiques reconnues pour accroître la vulnérabilité
personnelle et sociale..."
Le
phénomène du suicide chez les jeunes hommes: "L'auteure
traite ce délicat sujet en exploitant des entrevues de trois jeunes
hommes dont deux sont homosexuels. On pourrait s'étonner de l'insistance
mise sur l'homosexualité comme facteur déterminant. En fait,
ces propos rejoignent des études qui montrent que les homosexuels,
les victimes d'agressions sexuelles et les autochtones sont les principaux
candidats au suicide..." - Suicide chez les jeunes homosexuels : Le cercle vicieux.
From
"Index"
- L'hebdo gai du Québec - October, 98 - Two suicide related articles:
La
corde au cou and L’homosexualité:
facteur de risque, oui ou non? Cases are noted to reveal
that French Canadian gay boys are also attempting suicide for reasons related
to their sexual orientation: lack of self-acceptance to abuse by others.
One - Pierre - totaled a car in his attempt to kill himself by driving
a car at 140 k/hr down a 150-feet embankment and a seat belt was not being
used in the hope that death would result. Projet 10 - reports dealing with
10 to 15 suicide attempters per year, while a youth group - Jeunesse
Lambda - somewhat minimized the problem. In an inadvertent way, however,
the youth group had presented Pierre (suicide attempt described above)
with a situation which precipitated his decision to kill himself. [In Calgary,
in 1996 or 1997 - a male had attended a GLB youth group once and, soon
after, committed suicide.] - Carrefour
Intervention Suicide (Québec): - La
problématique du suicide dans les populations gaie, lesbienne et
bisexuelle.
Le
suicide et l'homosexualité. - Le
suicide chez les jeunes hommes homosexuels. - Le
suicide chez les gais et lesbiennes. - Le
suicide chez les jeunes gais: Gai Écoute à l’origine de la
première recherche québécoise portant sur le suicide
chez les jeunes gais et bisexuels. - Une
réalité à reconnaître: le suicide chez les jeunes
gais. - Vous
(Claude Charron) avez fait un reportage percutant sur le suicide chez les
jeunes gais.Et vous êtes associé à l’organisme Gai
Ecoute. C’est important pour vous? - Histoire
de vie: "Je voudrais tellement être comme tout le monde, avoir
femme et enfants, mais les hommes m'attirent...Au début de la vingtaine,
des pro-blèmes de santé mentale se révèlent
de plus en plus chez Denis. Il devient étrange et imprévisible.
Les membres de sa famille sont inquiets, on le sent souffrir beaucoup moralement.
Durant deux ou trois ans, ses proches le voient dégringoler, jusqu'au
jour où il devra être hospitalisé en psychiatrie. Là,
on conclut à un diagnostic de schizophrénie. À partir
du début de la vingtaine et jusqu'à sa mort, Denis sera épisodiquement
suivi en psychiatrie. Régulièrement, il devra faire de nouveaux
séjours à l'hôpital psychiatrique...La confusion sur
son orientation sexuelle : un obstacle à la « normalité
» de Denis... Pour Denis, vivre une vie « normale »,
c'est entretenir des rapports amoureux avec une personne de l'autre sexe.
Au-dedans de lui-même, il n'en est pas moins confronté à
la réalité complexe et ambivalente de sa libido. Son orientation
sexuelle est confuse. Tout comme il a aimé avoir des relations hétérosexuelles,
les hommes l'attirent et l'excitent... Deux ou trois ans avant de se suicider,
il forme un couple avec un jeune homme et il fréquente des bars
gais. À ses proches, il révèle alors clairement ses
tendances. Cette expérience de vie commune se termine au bout de
quelques mois. Selon sa famille, « ...c'était difficile à
vivre pour Denis d'être ainsi tiraillé sexuellement et de
ne pas répondre aux normes de la société ».
Le
suicide chez les gais; la
Cohorte Oméga signale de nouvelles statistiques qui soulèvent
des inquiétudes: "La haute prévalence des idées
suicidaires et des tentatives de suicide chez les hommes gais montréalais
ainsi que les liens observés entre ces événements
et l'acceptation personnelle et sociale de leur orientation sexuelle, soulignent
l'urgence d'inclure ces préoccupations de façon formelle
aux priorités de santé», termine le communiqué."
- Forte
tendance suicidaire chez les homosexuels: (Must Scroll) Pas moins
de 36% des hommes homosexuels participant à un vaste ensemble de
recherches sur le sida ont déjà tenté de s'enlever
la vie, révèle la première étude québécoise
qui établit des liens évidents entre l'homosexualité
et l'incidence du suicide... Plus encore, près de 72% des participants
ont pensé au moins une fois en finir avec la vie, révèle
l'étude." - Suicide
et coming-out chez les gais et bisexuels montréalais. Ya-t-il
un lien? "Parmi nos participants [Cohorte Oméga], 71,3 %
déclarent qu’il leur est arrivé au moins une fois d’avoir
des idées suicidaires (23,5 %, une seule fois et 47,8 %, plus
d’une fois). L’âge moyen à ce premier événement
est de 19 ans (18,7 ans) alors que chez ceux qui rapportent avoir songé
à se suicider plus d’une fois, l’âge moyen au dernier événement
est de 30 ans (29,9 ans)." - Taux
record de tentatives de suicide chez les homosexuels.
L'affaire
Pinard: "Le 15 mars 2000, monsieur Daniel Pinard... faisait publiquement
son ''coming-out'' à l'émission Les Francs Tireurs... révélant
son homosexualité, et ceci, à titre de porte-parole pour
le mouvement Gai-Écoute qui tente de sensibiliser la population
au phénomène grandissant du suicide chez les jeunes gais.
Il y dénonçait la méchanceté gratuite de certains
humoristes québécois, ne se contentant pas de rire des minorités,
mais pointant directement du doigt des personnalités connues. -
Demystifying Homosexuality in Schools in the Chaudière-Appalachia
Region: An Aid to Intervention (PDF
Download N/A)
Special Issue on "Sexual
Orientation" in "Vis-à-vie" by the Quebec Association of Suicidology
is now available online.La
revue le Vis-à-vie, vol. 10 nº 2, 2000: Le thème
de ce numéro est « Suicide et orientations sexuelles »:
Un
double tabou. - Orientations
homosexuelles ou bisexuelles chez les jeunes présentant des problèmes
suicidaires: recherche, problématique et propositions. - La
honte d'être. - Mort
ou fif, différence assassinée. - Événements
suicidaires chez les hommes gais. - Gai
écoute, 20 ans d'espoir. - Suicide-Action
Montréal et Gai écoute : un projet conjoint de formation
et de sensibilisation. - L'intervention
dans Chaudière-Appalaches. - Histoire
de vie. Note: The English version of "Orientations homosexuelles
ou bisexuelles chez les jeunes présentant des problèmes suicidaires:
recherche, problématique et propositions" by Pierre Tremblay and
Richard Ramsay is available as "Suicidal
problems of youth with homosexual or bisexual orientations: research, problems,
and proposals.
Le
suicide des jeunes à orientation sexuelle non conventionnelle... - Suicide
chez les jeunes • reconnaissance des droits • hétérosexisme.
À quand une campagne de sensibilisation sur l'homophobie? N/A
-
L'amour
entre femmes dans l'Église catholique
par Débora et Judith, aux Éditions AdA Inc.: "On y retrouve
également des témoignages et des statistiques qu'on ose à
peine dévoiler concernant le suicide de trop nombreux gais et lesbiennes."
Documents
PDF N/A: - Impact
du «Projet 10» sur le mieux-être sexuel de jeunes gais
et bisexuels. - Faire
les premiers pas - Un livret pour les jeunes gais, lesbiennes et biseuxuels
N/A. - Jeunes
gais/ lesbiennes 14-17 ans - Modèle d'intervention de groupe (ville
de Québec). - Le
suicide et l'orientation sexuelle. Document de Projet 10 Montréal
sur les aspects psychosociaux du suicide chez les jeunes gais, lesbiennes
et bisexuel(les). - Le
livre Blanc: La prévention du suicide. - Le
Suicide: Ce que vous devez savoir (PDF Document).
Australia / New Zealand:
NOTE: Some links not available due to Australia's QRD not being online for a period which may be more than temporary. The Sexuality and Youth Suicide Project was also scrapped, but a revival occurred early in 2000..
Sexuality
and Youth Suicide Project (West Australia). (Not available, and
some information related to Sexuality
& Youth Suicide or The
'Here For Life' Youth Sexuality Project was still available, but it
is now gone (Nov. 2001). - See the 1999 report: 'Here for Life' Youth
Sexuality Project. An overview of some early results by Graham
Brown (Manager, Peer Education WA AIDS Council) accessed (PDF
Format) from Youth
Suicide Prevention Bulletin No.3 June 1999. - School's
Out: Homosexuality, Bullying and Suicide. - A Report from the
Skool’s Out Forum on Homophobic Bullying and Harassment
in and around Schools 2002 (PDF
Download).
Bisexuals
at high risk for mental health problems and suicide: Homosexuals
have poorer mental health than heterosexuals. Study: "Sexual orientation
and mental health: results from a community survey of young and middle-aged
adults." Full
Text. - PubMed
Abstract. Study results used as part of a presentation of 'higher risk"
status for ndividuals noo belonging to socially constructed categories:
Link
to PowerPoint Presentation. - Towards a sociocultural analysis of youth
suicide: Researching the everyday narratives of urban and regional communities
(PDF
Download).
Don't
Ask, Don't Tell: Hidden in the Crowd: The Need for Documenting Links between
Sexuality and Suicidal Behaviours among Young People, 2003 (PDF
Download) - Gay
and Lesbian Suicide (including youth suicide). - Rural
suicide and same-sex attracted youth: issues, interventions and implications
for rural counsellors (PDF
Download) (HTML
Copy) Rural and Remote Health (online), 2003: no. 222. Abstract:
"Recent research into same-sex attracted youth (SSAY) suicide and rural
youth suicide suggests there may be an association between the two. A literature
review explores this proposal. While contributing issues to rural SSAY
suicide, such as homophobia, isolation, availability of information, and
acknowledgement of issues are discussed, little hard evidence is found
to support the the rural and SSAY suicide connection. Further and on-going
research is recommended into this under-represented topic."
Australian
Government rejects anti-suicide poster: it presents being young &
gay/lesbian too positively (Must scroll to locate information). - 'Out
of line' Judy sets back suicide prevention 50 years [for GLB youth]
(Not Available: A 1997 News from Australian
Democrats). Youth and Sexuality Final Report now available as Word
or Text Zip file at Freedom
Centre site: 'Here for Life' Youth Sexuality Project Executive Summary (Zip Word File) and Final Report (Zip Word File). - Health
and Support for Australian Gay Males. - Spirituality,
Sexuality & Suicide - bringing God & Spirituality out of the closet:
"Suicide? Well there's plenty of surveys and statistics about this and
the work of dozens of organisations trying to research, understand
and prevent it, like SPA and this conference. Remarkably though, few organisations
have included the gay population in their research, even though this sector
is one in which suicide ideation is often part of the gauntlet which
the young gay person may often face in their rocky process of coming out
as someone whose sexuality flies in the face of the heterosexist model
of the rest of the world around them."
Youth
suicide strategy evaluated (Sydney Star Observer, Issue 533) by By Sarah
Bacon:"... the only project funded by the Strategy which dealt
specifically with gay and lesbian youth suicide issues was the Here For
Life Youth Sexuality Project (WA AIDS Council in conjunction with the Gay
and Lesbian Counselling Service) which received $250,000. Graham
Brown, the health promotion officer on the Here For Life Project, says
the project "went really well" considering the number of challenges - such
as political battles and homophobic backlash - they had to overcome. -
Australia's
Valuing Young Lives: Evaluation of the National Youth Suicide Prevention
Strategy is available online. - Issues Paper: Mental health issues
for GLBTI Victorians (PDF
Download).
Suicide
Prevention Australia 8th Annual Conference 2001 - A Human Odyssey (6 -
9 April 2001) - Session (1) "Suicide in the Gay & Lesbian Community"
- Jonathan Nicholas: The Reach Out Program, Sydney - (90 minute workshop):
The incidences of suicide in the gay and lesbian community are dramatically
high. Many do not have expertise in counselling in this area. The first
in-depth Australian research into completed suicide within this community
sampling more than 400 people to the age of 30 has just been completed
with some dramatic findings. This workshop is a must for anyone working
with young people. - Self Harm and Suicide Risk for Same-Sex Attracted
Young People: A Family Perspective (Australian e-Journal for the Advancement
of Mental Health (AeJAMH), Vol. 1, Issue 1, 2002: PDF
Download).
Self
Harm and Suicide Risk for Same-Sex Attracted Young People: A Family Perspective
(Australian e-Journal for the Advancement of Mental Health (AeJAMH), Vol.
1, Issue 1, 2002: PDF
Download). - Suicide
Prevention Australia 8th Annual Conference 2001 - A Human Odyssey (6 -
9 April 2001) (Must
join group to view web page)- Session (1) "Suicide in the Gay &
Lesbian Community" - Jonathan Nicholas: The Reach Out Program, Sydney -
(90 minute workshop): The incidences of suicide in the gay and lesbian
community are dramatically high. Many do not have expertise in counselling
in this area. The first in-depth Australian research into completed
suicide within this community sampling more than 400 people to the age
of 30 has just been completed with some dramatic findings. This workshop
is a must for anyone working with young people.
Fergusson DM, Horwood LJ, Ridder EM, Beautrais AL (2005). Sexual orientation and mental health in a birth cohort of young adults. Psychological Medicine, 35: 971-981 (PDF Download, Download Page):
"Cohort members with a predominantly homosexual orientation had rates
of mental disorder and suicidal behaviours that were between 1.5 to 12
times higher than for those with an exclusively heterosexual
orientation. These associations persisted after adjustment for
confounding. The associations between sexual orientation and mental
health were more marked for males than females."
Suicide
and Self-harm (Volume 166, Issues in Society): "Suicide is a tragedy
which occurs all too often and which can prevented. This book examines
Australia's suicide rate and focuses on the groups most at risk - young
people; middle-aged men; Aboriginal people; gays and lesbians; people from
rural and remote communities; and the elderly. This book also explores
the risk factors and warning signs for people who self-harm, and for those
who attempt suicide; the myths of suicide; treatments for depression; understanding
suicide and developing prevention strategies; and how to deal with the
grief of losing someone who has taken their own life."
Tasmania:
- Release
on Tas gay suicide study - 2.5 times more likely to be suicide
attempters. - Gay
Youth Study: Government response Essential (Tasmania) N/A. - Under
21: Youth Suicide. - I
remember wanting to die and wanting others to feel the depth of my suffering
and hopelessness: Sticks and Stones May Break Bones, But Names Hurt Even
More.
Outlinks
- Rural GLB Youth Network: - Summary:
Sexuality & Suicide: An Investigation of Health Compromising and Suicidal
Behaviours among Gay and Bisexual Male Youth
in Tasmania. - An Investigation of Health compromising and Suicidal
Behaviours among Gay and Bisexual Male Youth in Tasmania, Kent Fordham,
1998: "Following an earlier study which found that 10% a sample of rural
14-18 year olds report same sex attractions, a study in 1998 of a sample
of rural, regional and some urban 14-18 year old same sex attracted youth
by Lynne Hillier and Jenny Walsh from the Australian Research Centre in
Sex, Health and Society at La Trobe University found that 46% reported
verbal and physical abuse 70% of which occurred at school. 11% reported
IV drug use compared to 1% of all young people. They also report higher
rates of drinking and marijuana and heroin use. Only 5% of same sex attracted
youth sought help from counsellors and 14% from teachers." - Full Text,
Sexuality & Suicide - PDF
Download) - Outlink
National Gay and Lesbian Rural Youth Project. - "Rural
youth suicide: the issue of male homosexuality" by Edward Green (Social
Change in Rural Australia, 1996),
Rural gays in misery: Report. "Their misery often led them to alcohol
and drugs and even suicide." (Information available at the Reach
Out web site. Must register and use site's search engine). - Working
it Out - "Working It Out" Committee: Adressing Sexuality Issues. - Rural
youth suicide: convention, context and cure: Speech by Chris Sidoti,
Human Rights Commissioner to the Australian College of Health Service Executives
(SA) Seminar, Adelaide, 14 October 1999.
Tasmania: ...a
16 year old man, Captain of his Launceston high school, killed himself
last week after being constantly harassed for being gay (Sept. '99).
He died because this society did everything it could to encouraged his
death and nothing to stop it. It instilled in him a deep and abiding sense
of shame and worthlessness. It filled his peers with a profound ill-will,
armed them with the words to inflict their malice, and permitted them to
attack. Then, having systematically made his young life hell, society just
as systematically denied him all hope. - Rodney
Croome Says Society is Encouraging Deaths: Youth Suicides Due to Narrow
Social-Sexual Pressures: "Tasmanian gay activist, Rodney Croome condemned
what he described as the' tyranny of heterosexuality' at the launching
of the Victorian Law Foundation's new book, A Just Society? ..
Ignored
to death: Representations of young gay men, lesbians and bisexuals
in Australian youth suicide policy and programs - 1996. - "A
[1998] mental health conference in Sydney addressing gay and lesbian youth
suicide has heard the problem is still largely ignored by governments and
rural communities." - Suicide
prevention projects Ignore Sexuality. - Call
for action to combat youth-gay suicide rate. - Gay
youth suicide prevention may be missing the mark. - Youth
suicide in Australia: What are the causes and risk factors for suicide
among young people? Multiplicity of factors linked to youth suicide
(Homosexuality is not mentioned in the document "Youth suicide in
Australia - A Background Monograph". Is this an example of "being
ignored to
death"?). - The Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society has published a report
"Don't ask, don't tell - Hidden in the crowd: the need for documenting
links between sexuality and suicidal behavious among young people" in
May 2003... Gay Issues continue to be ignored?
Ian's
goal to educate kids: - Roberts, Australia's first leading sportsman
to declare his homosexuality, has received hundreds of letters from youths
frightened and bewildered about their sexuality. He proposed the development
of an education kit to be made available in all schools. "If people read
the letters I've had about kids being suicidal, and knowing people who
have committed suicide, you know it wouldn't be a problem to be introduced,"
he said. - A
challenge to the stereotypes (Ian Roberts: Finding Out, by Paul Freeman):
"The social problem of homophobia, as Freeman shows, still remains, of
course. Gay youth are made homeless by being thrown out by intolerant parents;
gays are victims of hate crimes, verbal harassment and the assault of images
of heterosexuality as “normal”. All this drives some gay youth to suicide
attempts."
From XY Magazine
(1995): "Young
male suicide - reversing the trend." Reporting on a suicide prevention
conference: "One other excellent paper, by Kenton Penley of the Second
Storey Youth Health Centre in Adelaide, reported the dearth of research
into the effects of heterosexism and homophobia on youth suicide rates."
"But two out of 50 [papers presented] is a damming illustration of how
the community of "anti-suicide workers" regards the need to ask how gender
construction effects suicide rates."
Out
of a group of 13 gay street kids who, by an early age, were being
passed around by abusive men, only 3 survived to the age of about 30 -
most by violent suicides, OD's, and AIDS. Other suicide cases are given,
and the issue of mainstream suicidology problems are discussed. - Christmas
can be Gay, but not Very Merry: "Youth worker Ralph Graham says that
while Christmas is a hard time for many people who cannot be with their
loved ones, it is particularly hard for homosexuals. Coming to terms with
their sexuality and fear of rejection can be too much. The pressure is
reflected in homosexual suicide statistics around the festive season...
Last year Ralph received three calls from people attempting suicide in
the lead-up to Christmas. All three were young men trying to come to terms
with their sexuality. One had the support of his parents, another had not
yet told them and the third was not comfortable with being gay, fearing
rejection from his parents, family and friends." - A
gay man who survived a mutual suicide pact with his lover.
Shane
Hughes is a 23 year old bisexual who lives in Adelaide, South Australia. "Between the ages of 14 and 21, Shane attempted suicide several
times because he could not deal with his sexuality and the feelings he
was having." - How
a Gay Son Finally came out to his Parents: "Mrs Hughes, who lives
at Victor Harbour with husband Graham, said that after the initial shock,
there was a sense of relief. He’d had suicide attempts and we didn’t understand
why. We questioned ourselves." Mrs Hughes said. "...Mrs Hughes, who lives
at Victor Harbour with husband Graham, said that after the initial shock,
there was a sense of relief. He’d had suicide attempts and we didn’t understand
why. We questioned ourselves." Mrs Hughes said... Shane Hughes is 25 and
happy – but it wasn’t always the case. He recalls his primary school days,
when he noticed he was attracted to boys as well as girls. "I didn’t really
do anything about it until my early high school days, when I started feeling
my way around, if I can put it that way," he said. "I got mixed up from
there. I had a hard time of it. Maybe because it was all happening for
me and I didn’t have any positive gay role models..."
Silence
is where the hate grows - in reference to mainstream suicidologists
avoiding "homosexuality" issues in adolescent suicide research and prevention
work: "Although Casey reckons
he "always knew" he was gay, he became one of the kids who was "forced
into doing it". After moving to Sydney, Casey was drawn into a string of
abusive "relationships"...Because of his low self-esteem
borne of the silence, Casey says he was easy pickings for deeply-closeted
homosexual "sick tickets" who found more pleasure in hearing screams for
mercy as they held knives to the throats of other parents' sons than in
real and open love... Starved of real love and left
with little hope, Casey, like many young gays, turned to chemical "friends"
to fill the void. His only human friends became the other youngsters traded
by the "sick tickets"... "Of the thirteen of us, I'm one
of only three that's still alive today," Casey says. "Most of my friends
blew their heads off, some of them OD'd and some of them have died from
AIDS. They were all bright kids with talents and promising futures."
The
Wakeup Call - Robert was sexually abused as a boy, expelled
from his adopted Christian family when his homosexual orientation was discovered
at age 14, survived via street prostitution in Brisbane, contracted HIV,
developed AIDS, and killed himself in a way that may be deemed "an accident"
by the investigating authorities. Sometimes a friend, such as Martin Worterding,
may know that it was not an accident and he remains emotionally troubled
because he is part of a society not deemed "innocent" with respect to such
ultimately fatal outcomes.
Homosexuality
and Suicide (Part 2, Part
1) by Ed Green with Margaret Appleby (From: The
Suicide-Prevention Information Centre): Difficulties experienced
in the 'coming out' stage..., Difficulties in the school environment...,
Lack of friends and role models..., Discrimination in the workplace...,
Violence towards gays and lesbians..., Problems when sexuality is hidden...,
Attitudes of some religious denominations..., Isolation in rural communities...,
Higher risk for AIDS..., Providing support for homosexuals..., Bibliography.
(Extract from the "Suicide Awareness for Aboriginal Communities" by Margaret
Appleby & Dr. Raymond King Colleen, Brown Publishers - Rose Education)
Prejudice
can Affect Health: Australian Medical Association: "he cited a
1996 Australian study that showed that over half of gay male youths had
attempted suicide. "Because of homophobia, people are suffering. Young
people are dying. There can be no excuses for delays in achieving justice
and human rights for all people. Lives depend on it," said Phelps. "There
was very wide consultation in reaching this position statement," Phelps
told Reuters Health. "I believe that it's a very important document, and
it's one which the AMA will be disseminating widely to community groups
and medical colleges and universities." - AMA
Federal President, Dr Kerryn Phelps, To The Amnesty International Global
Human Rights Conference: "Why Homophobia is a Health Issue." -
Sexual
Diversity and Gender Identity Position Statement of AMA.
"Combating
Lesbian and Gay Youth Suicide and HIV/AIDS Transmission Rates: An Examination
of Possible Education Strategies in Western Australian High Schools in
Light of Prevailing State Statutes" by Christopher N Kendal & Sonia
Walker (E Law - Murdoch University Electronic Journal of Law, Vol 5, No
4).
Help
for parents dealing with youth suicide and homosexuality. A program run
by Jesuit Social Services N/A.- In
Queensland, schools left to decide whether GBL-positive materials will
be incorporated in their suicide prevention programs N/A. - Our
son committed suicide because his Church regarded him as a sinner and his
state regarded him as a criminal. - Cranebrook
is the fourth school he has had to leave. He has attempted suicide three
times and receives regular psychological counselling.
Between
40,000 and 60,000 young Australians attempt suicide each year. Thirty per
cent of those attempts are related to homophobia and sexuality. Despite
this, only 300 out of 853 youth suicide prevention projects mention the
“gay issue”, and only 12 address it in their programs. - Study
examining lives of gay, lesbian teachers, students and ex-students in schools
found N.A. - College
hate campaign sparks reform call (Note: White Print on White Background).
Melbourne
Herald Sun (27/12/'99): Boys
learn to be homophobic in the primary school playground, an academic says.
"...homophobia peaks in the mid to late teens, with boys in Years 8 and
9 reporting they use the word "poofter" 25 to 50 times a day... "At that
age it is extremely powerful - in fact 'poofter' was ranked as the worst
thing that a boy could be called." - Anti-homophobia
plan may curb suicide rate: (Alternate
Link, must scroll) "It started after surveys found bullying of same-sex
attracted students was rife. A study of 1200 rural high school students
found 11 per cent of teens aged 14-16 were attracted to the same sex. Another
study of same-sex attracted teens found 13 per cent had suffered physical
abuse and 46 per cent had suffered verbal abuse. Nearly 70 per cent of
the abuse happened at school: 60 per cent by other students, 10 per cent
by friends and 3 per cent by teachers. "It is total bullying," said Mr
Rojas-Morales. "It begins at primary school."
Sydney
Morning Herald (29/12/'99): Students
admit same sex attraction. Smith A, Lindsay J, Rosenthal D (1999).Same-sex
attraction, drug injection and binge drinking among Australian adolescents.
Australian and New Zealand Journal of Public Health, 23(6), 643-6. 6% of
grade 10-12 students report having same-sex attractions and are at higher
risk for a number of problems. - 11
Year Old Youngest In Australia To Undergo TG Therapy: "The suicide
rate amongst transgenders is so high (43 per cent of transgenders in Australia
have committed suicide or have made an attempt) and I don't want a dead
child." (Alternate
Link)
The
abuse of a gay male adolescent in a Melbourne school is implicated in suicide.
A newspaper, The
Age, printed a related article (Nov, 1998 - not available online)
resulting in two
letters to the editor which outline the highly negative situation
existing in schools for gay and lesbian youth. - From a May, 1998 "The
Age" article: "Parents need to ask themselves if they would prefer
our schools to deal sensitively with homophobia, or read about a child's
anguish in a suicide note." From the Hunter
Institute of Mental Health: An innovative mental health education program,
servicing the Hunter Region and Northern New South Wales - Module
10: Gay and Lesbian Youth Suicide. - Module
10 available as PDF Download.
New
Zealand: - Homo!
Poofter! Faggot! Youth Focus Article (Must Scroll) : A
17-year-old gay male describes his adolescent environment, a life a many
suicide attempts, the uselessness of psychiatrists (at least for his problems),
and a bleak outlook for the future "I've been rejected enough by family in my life,
so losing friends would have just thrown me," he explained. But school
was not easy for him. "Along with friendship break-ups at school, being
gay just topped it off." He attempted suicide over a dozen times. "I lose
count! I swallowed half a dozen different pills, drank nearly every household
chemical we had, and slit my wrists."" - Youth
at Risk: "Homelessness, Sexual Abuse, Family Rejection HIV: All
are contributing to Gay Youth suicides." - An
Australian expert reports that New Zealand has done very little to
stop young gays and lesbians from committing suicide. - Gay
Catholics Challenge Archbishop Pell on Youth Suicide.
New
Zealand: - Andrew,
a married man with 3 children, attempted suicide 3 times before coming
to terms with a secret few would have known - except for the males he had
sex with - had he died from his suicide attempts. - First New Zealand study to explore GLB suicidality
issues:
Longitudinal
Youth Study (By age 21: Suicide attempt incidence for GLB identified
youth is 32.1%, and 7.0% for the others. - A
study of suicidality and gay youth by John Fenaughty: "Life on the seesaw:
an assessment of suicide risk and resiliency for bisexual and gay male
youth in Aotearoa / New Zealand.
New
Zealand: - In
Ya Face - Like, for
example, the mis-conception that sexuality has nothing to do with some
people killing themselves. I disagree. Large numbers of gays and lesbians
have grappled with the thought of putting a gun to their head, or jumping
off the bridge. Why? Because being gay, lesbian or transgendered in Aotearoa,
despite the changes in the past decade, is still a bloody hard thing to
be. It's incredibly hard, and the pressures are such that it pushes too
many youths, literally, off the edge... Let's get very real, very quickly,
and start to recognize that a large proportion of youth suicides may be
attributed to the pressures of being gay or lesbian.
New
Zealand: New study to eventually be ready for peer review and likely publication
- "A New Zealand study being conducted by researchers at the Dunedin
School of Medicine (for information please contact Shyamala Nada-Raja -
Email: shyamala@gandalf.otago.ac.nz) will determine the association between
sexual orientation (based on a measure of sexual attraction) and a range
of behaviours indicative of deliberate self-harm (suicidal, non-suicidal
intent). The study is based on the Dunedin Multidisciplinary Health and
Development Study (DMHDS). The findings are expected to complement those
reported by Fergusson and colleagues (1999) in the Archives of General
Psychiatry." (Cited from a March 21, 2000 email from Shyamala Nada-Raja
written in response to a request made by Pierre Tremblay for related information.).
- The study is published in the American Journal of Psychiatry, 160(3):
541–546 (March, 2003): "Sexual Orientation and Self-Harm in Men and Women"
by Keren Skegg, Shyamala Nada-Raja, Nigel Dickson, Charlotte Paul, and
Sheila Williams. Lifetime suicide attempt incidences for young adult males:
Heterosexual (6%), Minor Homosexuality (16%), Significant Homosexuality
(25%). For females: Heterosexual (9%), Minor Homosexuality (11%), Significant
Homosexuality (33%). Link to abstract (Must Locate) at American
Journal of Psychiatry web site. PubMed
Abstract.
Factors
influencing the risk of suicide for gay and lesbian people include (NZ
Site): (Home
Page) - Awareness of being gay or lesbian and first sexual experience
- Total rejection by family over coming out - Rejection by society - Promiscuity
and unsafe sex - Homophobic assaults and cruel taunts. - Risk
Factors for Youth Suicide: "Sexual Orientation: There is growing
international evidence to confirm that young gay, lesbian and bisexual
people have higher rates of suicidal behaviour, arising from lack of support
for their sexual orientation and the discrimination they face."
Suicide in New Zealand II: a review of risk factors and prevention
(Annette Beautrais, New Zealnad Medical Journal, 2003): "Psychosocial
stresses... Sexual orientation Clear linkages have been established
between sexual orientation and suicide attempt behaviour. These
findings have been reported for New Zealand, with results indicating
that young people of gay, lesbian and bisexual orientation had rates of
suicidal ideation and attempt that were over five times those of
heterosexual youth."
Samoa:
- The
Closet in the Locker Room: "Many young gay people commit suicide and
this is about saving lives.” Tuaolo was shocked when a woman on a Samoan
Web site, responding to his announcement, said her son had committed suicide
because he was gay. Others on line responded that suicide is exactly what
any gay person should do."
Europe:
England:
- At
the time of his suicide Fashanu was wanted by police after fleeing America,
where he had a coaching job, in the wake of charges that he performed a
sexual act on a 17-year-old boy N/A. - Peter Tatchell says it was homophobia that ultimately destroyed the career and life of football star Justin Fashanu. - Darren
Steele (N/A) had suffered a five-year ordeal of
taunting and beating from fellow pupils at de Ferrers High in Burton because
he was thought to be gay, purely because of his love of cookery and drama
classes. Darren left a suicide note naming those he blamed for his death,
and this resulted in the arrest of 11 pupils, although the Crown Prosecution
Service decided not to prosecute them. Choirboy hanged himself after years of bullying. More related items: 1,
2,
3.
- Let's
talk about sexuality: The Samaritans and the London Lesbian
and Gay Switchboard have been building bridges to improve services available
to the despairing and suicidal. - Student
who died under train told family he was gay: "A gifted Cambridge University
student was killed under a Tube train hours after revealing his homosexuality
to his parents, an inquest was told yesterday...."
Suicide problems after becoming part of gay community: No Way Out - "Last year, six friends of mine tried to kill themselves. All men in their twenties, all intelligent, attractive, popular, and seemingly happy; and all, to a greater or lesser extent, identifying as gay. I started the year never having known anyone who’d attempted suicide. By christmas it felt like my world had been struck by an epidemic:" Three cases are described. "The Project for Advice, Counselling and Education (PACE) recognize that gay suicide is not a problem restricted to the pre-coming-out years of adolescence. "It’s an ongoing problem", one counselor told me. Many gay men don't find the support they need on the gay scene." It's a telling indictment of gay society that. Far from providing a solution to the homophobia of conventional life, the gay scene, and it's me-generation hedonism, makes gay people feel more isolated and alienated. - Warning over gay community's suicide rate.
Gay and Lesbian Humanist Association News Release - 5 October 1999: - "Take the case of Simon Harvey, son of George Harvey who runs a so-called counselling service for gays in East Anglia. Simon killed himself because he couldn't reconcile his homosexuality with the stance taken by his evangelical Christian father. More recently, a young man in Rotherham killed himself after listening to the American evangelist Pat Robertson condemning homosexual relationships - a tragedy brought to light by the coroner at the inquest. - Victims of gay bashing suicide link.
Study: Mental health and quality of life of gay men and lesbians in England and Wales (Abstract) (PubMed Abstract): "Gay men and lesbians were more likely than heterosexuals to have consulted a mental health professional in the past, deliberately harmed themselves and used recreational drugs. Lesbians were more likely to have experienced verbal and physical intimidation and to consume more alcohol than heterosexual women." - New Study Indicates Gays and Lesbians Prone To Psychological Symptoms and Substance Abuse - But School Harassment Rates Not Higher for Gay Males. - Gay star reveals suicide attempt (2006): "Gay actor Stephen Fry will reveal his struggle with depression and suicide contemplation in a new BBC documentary highlighting the condition later this year."
The cultural context of youth suicide: Identity, gender, and sexuality (Research in Progress: (PDF Download - Word Download):
"There is growing international evidence that young people struggling
with issues of sexuality and gender identity face increased likelihood
of attempting suicide. This has been raised repeatedly as an issue in
the U.K. though not yet researched in detail. The proposed study will
explore the cultural context of youth suicide in England and Wales,
with a focus on the significance of gender identity and sexuality."
Ireland:
- Report: One In Five Irish Gays Attempted Suicide. -
GLBT
suicide problems are expected to be similar in magnitude to the situation
existing in countries where related research had been carried out.
-
The
Irish Times (1998): Mr Kieran Rose of the Gay and Lesbian Equality
Network (GLEN), which made a submission in 1996, accused the task force
of willfully ignoring the issue of gay and lesbian suicide (Must subscribe). - Ulster's Young Gay men 30 Times More Likely to Attempt Suicide:
An alarming report, conducted by the Northern Ireland Science Shop, has
recorded that young gay men are 30 times more likely to attempt suicide
than their heterosexual counterparts: some have made as many as nine
unsuccessful attempts to kill themselves. - Study: 1 in 4 young Irish gays tried suicide. - Call for research into gay-suicide link. - Suicide Creates Waves of Sorrow: With his pink hair and polished nails, teen's shortlife was gay but hardly happy (PDF Download, Must Scroll: The Irish Associatoion of Suicidology Newsletter, 2004).
The USL GLBT Mental Health Campaign:
""A recent survey carried out in Northern Ireland showed over ‘one
quarter (27.1 per cent) of respondents had attempted suicide and over
two thirds (71.3 per cent) of respondents had thought about taking
their own life’ (Out on You Own, McNamee). This is a huge problem
within the LGBT community and further research and initiatives are
needed to help solve the problem." - Submission to National Strategy
for Action on Suicide Prevention: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and
Transgender Youth and Suicide (Word Download).
Study:
Suicide rate high for Irish gay teens: "Inside Story
January 20, 2004 - Belfast, Northern Ireland | Nearly a third of young
lesbian and gay people in Northern Ireland have tried to kill themselves
because of ongoing persecution and bullying, according to a new survey.
Just over 29 percent of gay respondents to the Department of Education
(news - web sites) poll said they had attempted suicide, with as many as
50 percent saying they suffered some sort of bullying regarding their sexuality.
Additionally, 26 percent of young people self-harmed as a way of dealing
with the pressures they faced regarding their sexuality." - Boys
Don't Cry: How many gay Irish men have taken their lives in the last year?
Nobody knows: "The report's findings on the experiences of gay men
and women show an increased risk of suicide - though this varies considerably
according to individual, social, economic and sociopolitical circumstances...
Will Peters of Gay HIV Strategies says: "Personally I believe the rates
have always been very high. It is a hard thing to say publicly because
of the families who have been bereaved by suicide, but I think that a lot
of these young men who are being mourned were gay. And they were gay 20
or 30 years ago." ..."People had plenty of anecdotal evidence. Schools,
for example, told us that most bullying manifests itself in homophobia."
Scotland:
Live To Tell: Finding of a study of suicidal thought, feelings and
behavior amongst young gay and bisexual men in Edinburg (PDF Download):
Research highlights: 95 Gay/Bi Males aged 15-26 (Average age = 20.8 years). 28% of respondents had at some point deliberately injured themselves with no suicidal intent. This compares to 2% of men in the general population.. 54% of respondents had seriously considered taking their own life, compared to 13% of men in the general population who have ever considered suicide. 51% of respondents who had previously considered suicide now no longer felt suicidal. However, 15% of respondents still seriously considered suicide at least once a month. 27% of young gay/bisexual men have attempted suicide compared to 4% of the general population. Suicide attempts were most common in those young gay/bisexual men aged 14 to 20. 58% of those who had attempted suicide made only one attempt. 35% had made three or more attempts. 23% made five or more attempts. 54% of respondents who had attempted suicide had at some point deliberately injured themselves without wanting to take their own life.
Two
men in Stirling, Scotland, have killed themselves after being caught on
video-tape in a police sting operation at a cruisy toilet in Beechwood
Park. - Scottish
Media Monitor: "After learning gay MP, Chris Smith and his partner
cooked for each other, he was mortified: "What are we to make of this muddled
message the government are sending?" (That they cooked for each other)?
And after two men committed suicide following police surveillance of a
toilet in Stirling, he scoffed: "Unfortunate - but neither the police
or society are to blame..." He thundered: "I’m no prude. Live and let live
is my motto. Just keep your sleaze to yourself is all I ask"."
France:
- Suicide
et dépression
chez les adolescents homosexuels, l'urgence d'une action!!!
- Le suicide qui n’ose pas dire son nom: "Le livre Homosexualité
& suicide, au travers d’études et de 13 témoignages,
propose une explication du taux de suicide apparemment plus élevé
chez les gays et lesbiennes et particulièrement les jeunes... Je
cite un paragraphe du livre qui résume les principaux facteurs à
risque pour le jeune gay : « on s’aperçoit que les risques
suicidaires les plus élevés sont, soit associés à
un vécu persécutif de la part de membres de la famille, de
pairs, ou de professionnels référents ; soit à une
difficulté extrême à traverser la prise de conscience
et / ou la révélation de l’homosexualité ; soit enfin
à une incapacité à vivre l’un de ses premiers amours,
à un rejet de sa part ou à une rupture amoureuse.." - Tentatives
de suicide à l’adolescence: souffrance singulière et mal-être
social: "Les jeunes face à l’homophobie" par Eric Verdier, Coauteur
de Homosexualité et suicide (p. 14-16. PDF
Download) - Suicide
Mortelle homophobie: Entretien réalisé par Dany Stive:
Éric Verdier et Jean-Marie Firdion, Homosexualités et
Suicide. - Contribution d’Eric Verdier À L’amphi 2005. - Une
recherche action d’Éric Verdier: Préférence
sexuelle, niveau social, origine ethnique : la discrimination conduit
à la prise de risque..
Le
risque de suicide chez les jeunes a orientations sexuelles non conventionelles
(lesbiennes, bisexuelles, gais) (PDF
Download, Homosexualites et Socialism, Rapport). - Le
rejet social comme origine du suicide. (Alternate Limk) - Le suicide des jeunes gays: Links to many items. - Avoir
16 ans et être homo: "La vie est très difficile lorsqu'on
se découvre gay au collège et au lycée. Un petit aperçu
de mon histoire à moi et mes conseils... C'était également
un moyen d'annoncer mon homosexualité aux gens qui m'entourent.
Grave erreur. Dans le cercle de mes amis, je me suis découvert des
ennemis suite à cette annonce. ça a été un
calvaire cette dernière année. Insultes, sous-entendus mal
placés, et même des crachas..." - Suicide
et dépression: "Suicide et sexualité sont encore
aujourd'hui en France des sujets relativement tabous. De nombreux experts
estiment que les statistiques sur le suicide sont sous-évaluées.
De plus, à la différence des États-Unis, du Canada
et de l'Italie, aucune étude n'a été menée
à ce jour sur les risques suicidaires dans la population des jeunes
gais et lesbiennes et celles réalisées sur le suicide chez
les jeunes n'interrogent, ni ne prennent en compte les difficultés
liées à l'acceptation de l'homosexualité ou de pratiques
homosexuelles...
Modes
de consommation d’alcool et tentatives de suicide chez l’homme jeune:
"Population et méthodes: Il s’agit d’une population exclusivement
masculine, représentative des 400 000 sujets sélectionnés
tous les ans dans l’ensemble des 10 centres de sélection de métropole
[Paris]. 9 758 sujets ont été tirés au sort. 9 270
réponses furent exploitables (taux de participation : 95 %). L’âge
moyen est de 20 ans, les extrêmes se situant de 17 à 29 ans.
Le taux de réponse aux 119 items de l’autoquestionnaire varie entre
88 % et 99 % selon les questions. L’enquête s’est déroulée
entre novembre 1992 et février 1993... Conclusions: ...D’autres
facteurs du risque suicidaire, non étudiés en détail,
ont été relevés, tels l’usage de drogues illicites,
de tabac et l’homosexualité. Parmi les sujets ayant fait un geste
suicidaire, un sur deux présente deux facteurs de risque ou plus."
État
de la question et pistes de prévention: Synthèse de la journée
d’étude organisée le 17 juillet 2001 (PDF
Download): "Depression, tentatives de suicide et trise de risque
parmis les lecteurs de la presse gay francaise" (Philippe ADAM, Institut
de Veille Sanitaire, Saint-Maurice, France): "4753 questionnaires remplis
par des hommes... Pour ce qui est des répondants masculins, l ’échantillon
se caractérise par une forte représentation des personnes
qui vivent en région parisienne (42%) et qui sont allés à
l ’université (62%). L ’âge moyen est de 35 ans. La plupart
(91%) des répondants se définissent comme gays. La moitié
ont un partenaire stable. 12% des répondants sont séropositifs
pour le VIH... Nous commencerons par dresser un état des lieux à
partir des autodéclarations des répondants. Parmi eux, 17%
déclarent avoir déjà fait une tentative de suicide
au cours de leur vie... Le graphique précédent montre que
le taux de déclaration de tentatives de suicide est déjà
à son maximum (27%) parmi les moins de 20 ans puis il décroît
régulièrement avec l’âge pour se stabiliser autour
de 15% après 35 ans."
Evaluation
de l’effet éventuel de la sursuicidalité sur les comportements
sexuels à risque chez les jeunes hommes ayant des relations entre
eux. Conséquences sur la pratique du dépistage du VIH
(PDF
Download): "La sursuicidalité des jeunes hommes ayant des relations
entre eux (HSH)... Cette étude exploratoire a été
réalisée en 2001 en milieu ouvert (à l’occasion d’une
manifestation festive) sur un échantillon (n=368; F=55%; âge
médian: F=19 ans; [ET=6,7]; H=21 ans; [ET=8]), vivant principalement
en région parisienne –sur-représenté en HSH (17%)
– rapportant pour environ 12% au moins une tentative de suicide (TS) durant
la vie. Les résultats obtenus confirment la sursuicidalité
des HSH (30%; p<0.05 ; 6 fois supérieure à celle des hommes
hétérosexuels) strictement comparable aux données
épidémiologiques disponibles..."
Suicide
et tentative de suicide parmi les personnes à orientation homo-/bisexuel:
- Prévalence des tentatives de suicide (France) selon le sexe et
l’orientation sexuelle... Hommes: 17%. 17%; Femmes: 25%. - Vos
avis au sujet de l'homosexualité: "Bonjour à tous....
je m'appelle Vanessa, je vais avoir 20 ans au mois de juin 2003. Je suis
homosexuelle (lesbienne, gwenn, comme vous le désirez...). Je n'ai
pas choisi d'être comme celà! Je me suis rendue compte malgré
moi que j'aimais une femme! Autre chose, c'est grâce à des
homophobes comme ceux-ci qu'à mes 17 ans, j'ai fait une tentative
de suicide! ...Un jour il a tenté de se suicider mais sa mère
est arrivé avant pour éviter la catastrophe. Ensuite il a
dit à toutes les personnes qu'il connaissait qu'il était
homo. Tout le monde l'a plus où moins accepté mais il est
quand même retourné avec un fille à cause de la pression
et des regards. Maintenant il vit avec une fille, mais il fait dépression
sur dépression, tentative de suicide sur tentative de suicide, il
est terriblement malheureux, il ne sort plus beaucoup à cause du
regards des gens. En gros, il est en train de se détruire et de
mourir tout ça à cause de ces crét... d'homophobes!"
En
prison, être homosexuel, c’est la pire des choses: "Mais
le pire s’est produit récemment et au moment où vous lisez
ce témoignage, mon ami est dans un service psychiatrique, suite
à une tentative de suicide. J’ai effectivement appris récemment
qu’il a été violé par trois détenus sous les
douches quelques jours avant son transfert. Comme d’habitude en prison,
ses cris n’ont pas été entendus. Les trois détenus
et les surveillants ont probablement tous supposé qu’un homosexuel
apprécierait de se faire enculer violemment par des inconnus. En
11 ans, mon ami aura donc subi deux viols en milieu carcéral. Première
incarcération : premier viol : transmission du VIH. Deuxième
incarcération : second viol : tentative de suicide..."
Les
chiffres noirs du suicide: "Selon les nouvelles données
de l’Enquête presse gay 2000, que «Têtu» présente
en exclusivité, un gay sur six a déjà fait une tentative
de suicide. Et les liens entre dépression et prise de risques sexuels
font froid dans le dos... Le premier mérite de cette enquête
est qu’elle nous donne, enfin, des chiffres précis sur la dépression
et les tentatives de suicide chez les gays. Malgré les informations
alarmantes en provenance d’autres pays depuis quelques années, ces
problématiques, bien documentées chez les hétérosexuels,
étaient jusqu’à présent complètement ignorées
en ce qui concerne les gays. Parmi les hommes ayant répondu à
l’Enquête presse gay, 17 % déclarent avoir déjà
fait une tentative de suicide au cours de leur vie, soit environ un homo
sur six. Ces données sont similaires à celles de plusieurs
enquêtes menées à l’étranger, notamment aux
États-Unis..."
Le
Refuge: L'Association nationale: Agir contre l'isolement des adolescents
attirés par une personne du même sexe. - L'association
dresse un constat troublant sur la situation des adolescents homosexuels
en France. Face à cet état des lieux, il était urgent
de réagir. Jeanne:
"Mon fils s'est suicidé il y a de cela quatre ans, il avait 17 ans.
Personne n'a compris ce geste à l'époque, même s'il
présentait depuis quelques temps des signes de dépression.
Pour moi ce fut un choc. En rangeant ses affaires, j'ai compris, il y a
trois an de cela, son " secret ". Je pense que mon fils était homosexuel.
J'ai retrouvé des revues érotiques masculines sous son lit
et des lettres assez équivoques. Je comprends maintenant cette douleur
qui le hantait." - Le
suicide de jeunes homosexuel/le/s. - Et
si votre enfant était homosexuel?
L'université
euroméditerranéenne des homosexualités: ..."Le
ministère s'intéresse également à la santé
des lesbiennes, cible du cancer du sein et peu touchée par les campagnes
de prévention. Mais surtout, dans le cadre de la prévention
du suicide chez les jeunes - l'une des premières causes de mortalité
dans cette population -, la DGS mène des actions spécifiques
pour prévenir les dégâts générés
par l'homophobie. Robert Simon rappelait « il y a un lien très
fort entre violation des droits de l'Homme et santé »." - Suicide : un risque plus eleve chez les jeunes homosexuels. - La
place de l'homosexualité dans l'éducation sexuelle en milieu
scolaire: L'homosexualité à l'adolescence. - Adolescence,
Homosexualité et Violence - Projet Daphné. - Adolescence
et homosexualité: souffrance, tabou social et inertie éducative.
- Autour
du coming-out: Quand la sortie est mal acceptée par la famille Réfléchir
avant de sortir de son placard.
Le
suicide du jeune gai, réalité ou mythe? - Les
adolescents homosexuels et le suicide: "Notre propos ne portera pas
sur l'interprétation à donner aux articles de Gageure, mais
il nous a semblé important de les évoquer afin de montrer
à quel point la question peut être tabou tant chez les homos
que chez les hétéros. Pour aborder le plus objectivement
possible la question du suicide chez les adolescents homos ou bisexuels,
il faut avant tout présenter ces statistiques que certains mettent
en doute..." - Controverse
sur l'existence d'un risque accru de suicide chez les jeunes homosexuels.
Le suicide révèle la souffrance singulière des jeunes homosexuels:
"Les résultats préliminaires du travail de Marc Shelly,
médecin de santé publique et responsable du centre de
dépistage anonyme et gratuit de l’hôpital parisien
Fernand-Widal, font apparaître que, "toutes choses égales
par ailleurs" âge, lieu de résidence, niveau
d’études, catégorie socioprofessionnelle, structure
familiale parentale, modes de vie (couple ou célibat) , les
jeunes homosexuels ont treize fois plus de risque de faire une
tentative de suicide que les jeunes hétérosexuels. Ces
résultats confirment les chiffres issus des études
américaines, canadiennes et australiennes : elles aboutissent,
chez les homosexuels, à des chiffres de "sursuicidalité"
variant de six à treize." - Prévention du suicide et pratiques de réseaux-congrès international-Liège du 18 au22/11/2002:
" Les résultats obtenus : • confirment la sursuicidalité
des HSH (30% ; p<0.05 ; 6 fois supérieure à celle des
hommes hétérosexuels..." - Suicide des jeunes : premiers chiffres français. - Péril suicidaire chez les jeunes homos:
Une enquête indépendante révèle qu’un homo
ou bisexuel homme a treize fois plus de risques de faire une tentative
de suicide qu’un hétérosexuel. Extrait de l’article paru
dans liberation.fr.
A
French politicians outs himself and states the following (N/A):
"Je suis et resterai persuadé que plus de visibilité (de
tous en général, mais des hommes et femmes publics en particulier)
éviterait sans doute un certain nombre de suicides de jeunes (ou
moins jeunes homosexuels)." - Les
suicides: " En réfléchissant à cette première
tentative des années plus tard, il est possible que cela soit le
refoulement de mon homosexualité qui était encore endormie,
je me souviens étant à l'internat à cette époque
dans une école d'horticulture, dans le dortoir le thème homo
avait été employé et d'ailleurs certains mecs étaient
passé à la pratique pendant la nuit et que moi je ne savais
pas ou j'en étais, le sexe, la masturbation était inconnue
jusqu'à 20ans environ... Pourtant de nouveau quelques années
plus tard je fais ma deuxième tentative de suicide, juste environ
1an avant mon coming out, pourquoi cette nouvelle tentative de me supprimer,
je ne le sais toujours pas, je sais que je suis quelqu'un de très
différent des autres, plutôt fragile, c'est comme ça
surtout que je suis en pleine période d'anorexie physique et mentale,
je veux un suicide rapide et aussi un suicide morbide, j'ai décidé
de ne plus manger et de me laisser mourir à petit feu..."
Pas
de mission sur le suicide pour Christine Boutin (communiqué
Inter-LGBT - 26 mai 2003): "A l'unanimité, le Conseil de l'Interassociative
lesbienne, gaie bi et trans, réuni ce samedi 24 mai, a voté
une décision demandant à Jean-Pierre Raffarin de retirer
la mission qu'il a confiée à Christine Boutin sur les taux
de suicide en France (cf. décision ci-dessous). Constatant que "Christine
Boutin s'est faite le relais d'une homophobie des plus violentes, et sans
doute des plus destructrices auprès des jeunes en construction de
leur identité", le Conseil de l'Inter-LGBT estime que "la mission
confiée par le Premier Ministre à Christine Boutin est une
provocation à l'égard des associations LGBT". Les associations
font remarquer que la députée " a offert une tribune inédite
à une haine homophobe qu'elle n'inscrira probablement pas dans son
rapport comme une cause de suicide"." - Ex
Aequo écrit à Christine Boutin sur le suicide des jeunes
gays. - Suicide,
prévention : deviner le risque chez l'adolescent. - Le
suicide à l'adolescence. - Communiqué
de Presse - Suicide des Jeunes: "Suite à la publication du rapport
2001 de l'INSERM sur le suicide des jeunes, l'association DEGEL constate
qu'une fois de plus le problème du suicide chez les jeunes gais
et lesbiennes est totalement occulté. Or, des études Nord-Américaines
réalisées au cours des dix dernières années
révèlent que le risque d'attenter à sa vie pour un-e
jeune homo est sept fois plus important que pour un jeune hétéro.
En France aucune étude prise en charge par l’Etat n’a été
faite à ce jour."
Italy
/ Italie: - Enquête
Italienne: (Must Scroll) "L'Associazione gay e lesbica de Florence
a mis en place une enquête sur internet à laquelle 800 gais
et lesbiennes du monde entier ont répondu (les deux tiers des réponses
provenaient d'Europe). Cette enquête fait suite à une série
de suicides de jeunes gais en Sardaigne, en Sicile (immolation par le feu)
et en Lombardie ainsi qu'à la mise à mort publique d'un jeune
homosexuel par son père à Foggia dans les Pouilles. Les résultats
de l'enquête internet sont frappants. Si 65 % des gais et 61 % des
lesbiennes avouent avoir pensé au suicide, 22 % des hommes et 21
% des femmes ont effectivement un jour tenté de mettre fin à
leur jour. 28 % des répondants ont effectué un traitement
psychologique ou psychiatrique (11 % contre leur volonté). Enfin
la moitié environ des questionnaires fait état de violences
subies en raison de l'orientation sexuelle, ces violences pouvant être
physiques (le plus souvent les parents et les camarades d'école),
psychologiques ou sexuelles."
Le
suicide de jeunes homosexuel/le/s: "En Italie, par exemple, selon
une enquête réalisée dans le cadre du programme Daphné
financé par l'Union européenne, 40 % des personnes interrogées
avaient envisagé le suicide, et 13 % avaient tenté de se
suicider. C'est dans la tranche d'âge des 14-16 ans que prévalaient
les idées de suicide, tandis que les tentatives de suicide avaient
généralement lieu entre 16 et 18 ans." - Situation
des lesbiennes et des gays dans les États membres du Conseil de
l'Europe: "En Italie, par exemple, selon une enquête réalisée
dans le cadre du programme Daphné financé par l'Union européenne,
40 % des personnes interrogées avaient envisagé le suicide,
et 13 % avaient tenté de se suicider. C'est dans la tranche d'âge
des 14-16 ans que prévalaient les idées de suicide, tandis
que les tentatives de suicide avaient généralement lieu entre
16 et 18 ans."
Italy has been rocked by the suicide of a teenager who was subjected to anti-gay taunts at school:
According to Italy's Gay Help Line, more than one third of the calls it
gets are from students distressed by taunting and bullying at school.
On Friday homophobic graffiti was sprayed across the front of a
well-known gay and lesbian bookshop in Milan. Also on Friday, the Rome
chapter of Arcigay claimed that local priests were pressuring mothers
to have their gay children exorcised. Arcigay also complained about RAI
state TV broadcaster news reports implying that the dead boy was picked
on not because he was gay but because he was seen as a 'swot'..."
Belgium
/ Belgique:- A study referenced on the Unit
for Suicide Research's Current
Research Page. Study Title: Controlled cross-sectional
study of suicidal thoughts, impulses, and behaviour among homosexual adolescents.
- Homosexualité
et suicide: liaisons dangereuses? - Les
jeunes gays et lesbiennes et le suicide: etat de la question et listes
de prevention. - État de la question et pistes de prévention:
Synthèse de la journée d’étude organisée le
17 juillet 2001 (PDF
Download).
Le
taux des tentatives de suicide est plus élevé chez les jeunes
homosexuels (6 octobre 1998, Must Scroll): "Une étude menée
en Flandres par l'université de Gand montre que les jeunes homosexuels
de 15 à 25 ans ont 2 à 5 fois plus de risque de tenter un
suicide que les jeunes hétérosexuels. 25% des femmes bisexuelles
ou lesbiennes et 13% des hommes homosexuels avaient tenté un suicide,
contre 5.4% des femmes et 5.9% des hommes hétérosexuel-le-s.
45% des femmes bisexuelles ou lesbiennes et 33% des hommes homosexuels
avaient envisagé un suicide, contre 24% des femmes et 16% des hommes
hétérosexuel-le-s. L'étude a été conduite
par le sociologue John Vincke et le psychologue Kees van Heeringen auprès
de 404 jeunes, homosexuels pour la moitié et présentée
au 7ème Symposium Européen « The Suicidal Process:
Challenges for Treatment and Prevention » du 9 au 12 septembre.
Switzerland
/ Suisse: - Un
jeune gai sur quatre a tenté de se suicider! - Statistiques
relatives aux tentatives de suicide commises par les adolescents homosexuel(le)s.
(Must Scroll) - Parler
d'homosexualité à l'école? La question gay déchire
leRoyaume-Uni. (Et la situation en Suisse?) - Un
jeune gay sur quatre a tenté de se suicider: "Selon une étude suisse, les garçons âgés
entre 13 et 17 ans qui aiment les garçons traversent une crise profonde.
Le psychiatre lausannois Pierre Cochand propose d'aborder le sujet dans
les écoles. Il note que plus on parle des comportements homosexuels,
plus leur fréquence diminue..." - Suicide
et tentative de suicide parmi les personnes à orientation homo-/bisexuel.
Etude
et statistiques sur les jeunes gays en Suisse Romande: - Le questionnaire
ciblait explicitement des jeunes hommes de 16 à 25 ans... Durant
ces 6 derniers mois, avez-vous eu des idées de suicide? non, jamais:
68.3%; oui, rarement: 16.3%; oui, parfois: 9.8%; oui, souvent: 5.7%...
Avez-vous par le passé tenté de vous suicider? Oui: 24.4%;
Non: 74.4%; ne répond pas: 1.6%. Echantillion: n = 102 jeune hommes
homosexuels et bisexuels.
Germany
/ Allemagne: - A study summary from - Statistiques
relatives aux tentatives de suicide commises par les adolescents homosexuel(le)s: 217 GLB individuals aged 15 - 27 years. 18% have attempted suicide
at least once, 50% responded to negatively in their families, and 66% were
abuse verbally and/or physically in their families. Reference cited:"Sie
liebt sie. Er liebt er." Etude berlinoise sur la situation psychosociale
des adolescents homosexuels (217 personnes entre 15 et 27 ans), Administration
du Sénat, Berlin, 1999 (www.sensjs.berlin.de).
Study Summary (Etude
et statistiques sur les jeunes gays en Suisse Romande): 18% des adolescents
homosexuel(le)s affirment avoir tenté au moins une fois de mettre
fin à leur jours. A l'annonce de leur homosexualité, plus
de 50% des adolescents reçoivent une réaction négative
de la part de leur environnement familial. 66% affirment subir des violences
verbales, voire physiques au sein de leur famille. Plus de 50% des adolescents
interrogés affirment (ab)user de substances nocives (tabac, alcool,
drogues) pour amenuiser leur mal-être. "Sie liebt sie. Er liebt er."
Etude berlinoise sur la situation psychosociale des adolescents homosexuels
(217 personnes entre 15 et 27 ans), Administration du Sénat, Berlin,
1999 (www.sensjs.berlin.de).
Slovenia:
- "Tednik"
also conducted an interview with gay leader Sandi Perdih at the largest
cemetery in Ljubljana, the capital, as Perdih paid his respects to gays
who were driven to suicide by homophobia N/A. (Must scroll to
locate article.) - Alternate
Link.
Hungary:
-
A
father wrote, that his son was gay. His wife, the sons mother, couldnt
accept it and attacked her son. He committed suicide. She couldn't cope
with that and she also committed suicide."
Romania:
-
The
right that dares not speak its name: "Two young gay men from the Romanian
town of Timisoara, Mirel Ciprian Cucu and Milorad Mutascu, who had been
living together in a flat, were arrested in January 1993. Mirel Cucu was
charged with having sexual relations with a person of the same sex. Milorad
Mutascu was charged with relations with a minor (a heterosexual relationship
between people of the same ages as Cucu and Mutascu would have been lawful).
They received suspended sentences of one and two years respectively. The
two men also faced vilification in the official police newspaper which
published their names, photographs and addresses even before formal charges
had been brought against them. The paper described their relationship as
a 'social danger'. Milorad Mutascu was subsequently unable to find work
because of his 'criminal' record. Two years after his trial, he committed
suicide." - Looking
For Acceptance: "The conference heard testimonies from older participants
who had attempted suicide or been subjected to blackmail; almost without
exception, most had chosen to live a clandestine life, either with a partner
or more likely alone, to escape the attention of a state which in the Ceausescu
era, gaoled homosexuals and subjected them to electric shock treatment."
Greece:
- Konstantin
Tsolakis on the persecution of gay people in Greece: "I grew up in
a society that still considers homosexuality a grave taboo, despite the
fact that it ceased to be illegal a long time ago. I will never forget
watching the Greek Orthodox archbishop, Christodoulos, preaching on television
that “all homosexuals are sinners and will definitely end up in Hell,”
imagine the impact that had on me, a gay boy of 17, struggling to come
to terms with my sexuality in a country where gays are constantly humiliated,
albeit mainly verbally, in the media, the tabloids and everyday conversations
one happens to overhear. During the summer, a young gay man committed suicide
in jail after being arrested in a police raid in an Athenian gay bar, giving
thus “proof” to many conservative Greeks of homosexuality’s “ungodly” nature
that “only leads men to destruction.”" - Gay
activists stage public kiss protest in downtown Athens. (Article on Doc Download) - Gay,
transvestite activists stage public kiss demo in downtown Athens.
Sweden
/ Suède: - La
Suède aux prises avec un grave taux de suicide. - Justin
Lundsten: "I suppose I should devote my first column to myself. So
read my life story, and I hope you enjoy it, that's why it's here... I
have been clear with my sexuality as long as I can remember. I can't say
a date or a year when it "came to me" that I was gay. But it is only in
the last few years that I have realized what it means. I slipped in to
a depression and cried a lot. I didn't meet any new people, or went with
my friends out or to parties. I isolated myself, living of my own egoism.
I even thought of committing suicide! ..." - Le
suicide inquiète en Suède. - Les
communes doivent se mobiliser contre le suicide des jeunes homosexuels.
- Stockholm
veut aider les jeunes homos, bi et transsexuels.
Norway:
- "The
need for developing strategies for suicide prevention among young lesbian
women and gay men: empirical and theoretical rationales written on the
subject," was presented at the Conference
on the Status of Nordic Health Promotion Research: Progress during the
Decade after the Ottawa Charter. - The
National Plan for Suicide Prevention 1994-1998: Chapter 3: Homosexuality
mentioned without explanations. - A
web page on Norway's GLBT suicide problems. - Friis, Eva: Suicide
and suicide prevention among gays and lesbians (First published in
the Norwegian journal Suicidologi 1998, no. 3.) - Is
there an elevated risk of attempted suicide among homosexual adolescents? - Suicide Attempts among Norwegian Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Youths.
Denmark: Qin P, Agerbo
E, Mortensen PB (2003). Suicide
risk in relation to socioeconomic, demographic,
psychiatric,
and familial factors: a national register-based
study of
all suicides in Denmark, 1981-1997.
American Journal
of Psychiatry, 160(4):765-72. (Abstract): "...registered
[same-sex] partners included as a separate
category
in the analysis had an odds ratio of 4.31 (95% CI=
2.23–8.36) in the crude analysis and 3.63 (95% CI=1.71– 7.67) in
analyses with adjustment for other factors in the
full model
[for having committed suicide compared to
opposite-sex
married couples]".
Homosexuality by Marte
Nathalie: "A statistic bureau in Norway recently released a study on the
life-quality amongst young people that love someone from the same sex.
The results are shocking. One out of four had tried to commit suicide!
Half of the people asked didn't dare to tell even their closest friends
that they were gay. Many had gone through tough times with their families,
some had even been thrown out on the streets when they told they were gay."
Caribbean:
Trinidad:
Jessie:
I had to visit delusive shrinks who got rich off of my misery.
I still have this scar on my wrist, an ugly memento of the power he once
had over my decision to live or die. I may never get to tell him, "Even
after all the blows, ostracism and emotional turmoil, I'm still gay...
- NM:
"I hate the fact that I hurt inwardly and no one can tell. I hate the inalienable
truth that being gay is like living a whole other existence... I
had that happy place in my mind that I would retreat to whenever everything
was bad. However everytime I retreated into it, it grew smaller until there
was nothing left. Now when I really need it there is nothing that I could
go to. I need that place and I have to find it back otherwise I will end
up doing something really drastic. Right now, I need to retreat into that
place otherwise I swear I am going to go mad." - Trinicontact:
"But finally, deciding that telling everybody I was gay would be marginally
more fun than committing suicide... One of the big things I get is that
homosexuality wrong, but because this is a free country I can be gay if
I want. This is an improvement over the kill-the-faggots attitude of #7,
but still not good enough." - Homophobia
and gay youth suicide: two interrelated destructive forces in our society:
"The recent suicide of Surajdeo Lall is a prime example. This young gay
man committed suicide at his work place just after some co-workers outed
and harassed him."
Asia:
China:
- Chinese
lesbians commit suicide (N/A). (Must scroll to locate information.)
Korea:
Life
and Death in Queer Korea: "I consider myself lucky, though. Between
1997 and 1999, three of my gay friends in South Korea committed suicide.
In May 1998, Oh disclosed his homosexuality to his family. They immediately
rejected him and expelled him from their home. After living and suffering
on the streets for months, and at one point sleeping in an office, Oh killed
himself. The other two went to Seoul National University, which is South
Korea's Harvard or Yale. One was in Law School; the other was a graduate
student in biology. Their success in society was "guaranteed." However,
when they came to the age of marriage, they both faced a brutal dilemma.
Neither wanted to marry. But they also didn't want to disown their families
and disappoint their parents. So, they chose to kill themselves. One in
1997, the other in 1999. No funerals were held for these three young men:
their families considered them "bad" sons..."
Hong
Kong: Leslie
Cheung Kwok-Wing commits suicide.
Singapore:
From
Aunt Webby: Being
gay, in the closet, and suicidal in Singapore (N/A).
Thailand:
A
problem of image: Life in Thailand's twilight zone: Mention the
word katoey and Thais immediately think of the slightly soiled image of
the feminine end of the gay spectrum - the man dolled up as woman, the
limp wrist and exaggerated postures of the lady-boy. But as Thai gays seek
a higher level of social acceptance, so the country's transvestites and
transsexuals are trying to cast off their image as the unacceptable face
of homosexuality... Still, all is not well in the sexual twilight zone.
Trapped in the wrong gender, sometimes desperate to make the change from
male to female, katoey are often prone to depression, anger and rash behavior.
A minority turn to prostitution, others to crime. According to Peter Jackson,
author of Dear Uncle Go: Male Homosexuality in Thailand, a large percentage
of Thai transsexuals kill themselves." -
Sporty
Little Number: Thai audiences are lapping up a controversial movie
that deals with gay and transsexual issues: "A box-office smash, Satree
Lex, chronicles the country's gender-bending 1996 volleyball champion...
the lead characters include a lesbian and five katoey - a Thai term that
covers transsexuals, transvestites and effeminate gay men."
Malaysia:
- Religion
and Me: "In Islam, no one really wants to talks about sex. I don't
dare confront my parents about what is sex. I've been to some religious
talks and stuff, especially if it deals with the topic of sexuality and
homosexuality. What I really hate about going to such a gathering is that,
usually it gets me mad...furious actually. There's no actual revelation
about what is gay, just basically people condemning gays without any reason
why, and joking about it. When the speaker jokes about the number of gays
that committed suicide, that's something that really saddens me: how Muslims
value human life as some kind of a joke! That...and I am also a suicide
survivor, so I take it as a personal attack on myself. Hey, I'm all into
freedom of opinion and beliefs, but no way I'm listening to some ignorant
fool talking nonsense. - Malyasia:
Homosexuality And The Church Dialogue: "They are living a double life
? putting up a happy mask upfront in the church and society, but privately
suffering from shame and guilt because of their homosexual inclinations.
Or they resort to committing suicide
to ease the pressure from family and society..."
Sri
Lanka: - The
founder of a gay-rights group in Sri Lanka: ""Often Sri Lankan homosexuals have committed suicide because
they had no support from their families, from their community and from
the state," de Rose said. "We want to change that attitude.""
India:
- Transcript
of CNN coverage of homosexuality in India: "- SATPATHY: I thought better
to commit suicide and get lost, that would be the best thing I thought.
BINDRA: Satpathy says he attempted suicide twice again. He says his family
was sympathetic, but he moved thousands of miles to Mumbai to save his
family members further shame and humiliation. Satpathy's agony is shared
by thousands of other gays, and they are slowly sharing their experiences
in cyberspace. Mumbai's first gay site, gaybombay.com, gets 800 hits a
week. The site was put together by Bhavesh Kharia. Until just a few months
ago, Kharia says, people were even scared to come out on the net. Now gays
are using their real names on the net, a cyberspace network of gays is
slowly evolving. BHAVESH KHARIA, WEB DESIGNER: Most of the concern is we
don't want our parents to find out. You feel that you are somehow letting
them down. And that's where the guilt and the shame comes in..." - Adams
turning to Adams for the apple (Must Scroll): "he does not want to
marry a girl, but a boy, his partner for a year, now. Robin is a gay, a
homosexual. Recently, he attempted suicide after his parents resisted his
plans to marry his partner, but he has no regrets and wears the gay badge
with pride. Having a brilliant academic background and being well-informed,
he presents his case strongly..."
Is there anything gay about them?
" Recently, Baguiati residents Nisha Singh and Nisha Upadhyay committed
suicide. The reason was the refusal of society to accept their same-sex
love. In the past two years, this is the fourth such incident in the
state where couples have ended their lives. So, how difficult is it for
city lesbians to stay afloat in such an unsympathetic environment? Says
Malobika, spokesperson of Sappho, Kolkata's first lesbian organisation,
"It is very unfortunate that two young girls had to commit suicide only
because of lack of social acceptance. Until and unless Section 377 of
IPC is amended, we are simply helpless. Earlier lesbians usually came
from the elite class. But now, there is no class barrier as such. Two
girls, who worked as domestic helps in North 24 Parganas, had committed
suicide in January this year. If homosexuality wasn't considered a
crime, we could have lodged a complaint against the parents for
abetting suicide." ... Not just in West Bengal, the rate of same sex
couple suicide is on the rise throughout India, says the record books
of Sappho. "Even in Kerala, more than 45 couples have committed suicide
in the past five years,"Malobika adds."
Pakistan:
Gays
and lesbians in the Muslim community are quietly shattering one of the
final taboos of Islam."[He] attempted suicide twice before
he turned 18. "Growing up in Lahore, Pakistan, the eldest son of devout
Muslim parents, he could never come to terms with, let alone explore, his
attraction to other men. His best attempts to fake interest in girls failed
to impress his peers, who began to bully the self-described "effeminate"
man..."
Africa:
South
Africa: - If
they are discovered to be gay at school they are often sent to psychologists
as if they had a disease. You find many of them on the streets, or they
commit suicide (N/A). (Must scroll to locate article.). A
SA study of gay males that also reports on gay male youth suicide problems.
Zimbabwe:
Carlos
Mpofu, from Bulowayo, Zimbabwe, was twenty years old when our researcher
spoke to him in 2000... I first realized about my sexuality when I
was about twelve. I realized I wasn't attracted to girls: my first wet
dream wasn't with a girl, but a man. It first made me think of the sexual
side, and what side I was on. And then I was always a feminine child. But
I didn't have a word for it. The only word I knew was incubikile-an Ndebele
word, but it wasn't specific for gays, it meant anyone who was handicapped
or deformed.... I was suicidal for about a month. I attempted to commit
suicide; but my friends found me and revived me... I was very depressed
again. I moved out of the house permanently, and became a heavy drinker.
My home became the nightclubs; in the day I slept at my friend "Teresa's"
place. I went way down below zero. I became down and out, in the dumps,
as we say in gay circles. I was very promiscuous, in and out of everybody's
bed, leading a very dangerous life. I began to realize the type of gay
men we have in the city. I had no contact with my family for a while; I
stopped thinking about HIV/AIDS; I knew all the blackmailers. I attempted
suicide again..."
Zimbabwe:
- Pangi
Nyathi, Zimbabwean Gay Leader, Commits Suicide.
Eritrea:
Legal
but not accepted: "BtM: What is the problem facing individual gays,
governmental homophobic behaviour, as well as discrimination? M: Some of
them who I meet are HIV positive, they don't have any awareness as gays
that they should use a condom, they think condoms are only for heterosexuals.
Most of them are in confusion, they don't have interest to accept who they
are. One of my close friends goes to church to get cured. Another one killed
himself a year ago. But, no one, not even his family knew on what grounds
he committed suicide. Only me and other friends of mine knew..."
Cameroun:
- Suicide
et homosexualité en Afrique: le cas du Cameroun: Si d’après cette thèse l’homosexualité n’existe
pas en Afrique, comment peut-on en plus parler de suicide chez une catégorie
de la population, qui est déniée ? Cependant l’étude
récente que nous avons menée au Cameroun, a mis en exergue
l’existence de l’homosexualité en Afrique en général,
et au Cameroun en particulier. L’homosexualité au Cameroun ne relève
pas du mythe, c’est une réalité observable... De tout ce
qui précède, il ressort que l’attitude sociale réprobatrice
vis-à-vis de l’homosexualité, peut être un facteur
majeur, mais pas principal, de suicide chez les homosexuels. Cependant,
le Cameroun a ceci de particulier que face à cette hostilité,
les homosexuels ne pensent pas au suicide. A la place ils préfèrent
jouer au jeu que la société aime observer, en se dotant d’un
partenaire de l’autre sexe pour se faire accepter, tout en maintenant leur
activité homosexuelle de manière cachée. C’est que
nous avons désigné comme une stratégie de camouflage
et le partenaire de l’autre sexe dont se sert est désigné
par les gais au Cameroun sous le terme de « nfinga ».
Middle East / Central Asia:
Israel:
- For
gay Israeli youth, suicide rate soars high. - Political
Council for Gay Rights in Israel.
LGBT
Jews on Campus: "For openly gay students, or those just coming to terms
with their sexuality, however, the extra pressure of fearing reactions
from within the Jewish community too often prevents them from comfortably
walking into a Jewish organization. Making strides in this area - the welcoming
of gay and lesbian Jews into Jewish organizations and institutions - is
at the heart of Jewish LGBT activism. Working towards inclusion is not
limited to liberal Jewish communities. A Hasidic rabbi at the Jerusalem
Open House (Israel's gay and lesbian community center) now offers support
and a listening ear, after one of his students committed suicide
when not one Jew from his traditional community offered support. Now the
rabbi volunteers his time so that we never have to suffer another loss
like this."
Lebanon
/ Le Liban: - "Homosexualités
et suicide: témoignages cliniques et contribution au débat
à partir du Liban" par Jean-Luc Vannier.
Iran:
- Physician
heal thyself: "Internalized homophobia is the toxic shame, some of
us feel for having come out to our friends and families. We think we have
brought shame onto our Iranian families for coming out. We all have heard
or know of gay Iranians who committed suicide over extreme rejections they
experienced after coming out to their friends and families. Many gay Iranians
who are dominated by the demon of internalized homophobia get married and
pretend they are something they are not and deny themselves the chance
of living an authentic life; A life that is based on silencing our true
voice and murdering our genuine homoerotic feelings. Many gay physicians
have been using their surgical knife to cut themselves off from their gay
feelings, and letting the cancer of inner homophobia grow. Because many
of us were made to believe that we are less for being gay and have no right
to express who we are nor deserve to have love, we act out the rage we
have for being treated less than. This rage, due to years of mistreatment
and abuse, is expressed unconsciously and can take the form of drug abuse,
bareback sex, or suicide attempts."
- Inquest finds asylum refusal was motive for gay Iranian's suicide.- The Dangers of Being Young, Gay and Iranian: "One of my dear friends, Nima, commited suicide a month ago in Shiraz. He just couldn't take it anymore."
On August 11,
The
Trevor Project launched The Trevor Helpline, the
first round-the-clock national toll-free suicide hotline for gay and questioning
youth. It's open 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. Teens
with nowhere to turn can call 1-866-4-U-TREVOR. - Gay and Lesbian
Helpline (1-888) 340-4528: The national toll-free Gay and Lesbian Helpline
is operated by Fenway
Community Health Center in Boston. It provides free confidential
information, referrals, crisis intervention, and support to callers seven
evenings a week. Typical topics include safer sex and coming out. Typical
topics include safer sex and coming out. Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender
Helpline - 617-267-9001 - Toll-free 888-340-4528. - Peer Listening
Line 1-617-267-2535. Toll-free 1-800-399-PEER (1-800-399-7337). USA: Suicide & Crisis Lines.
Kids
Help Phone, Canada: 1-800-668-6868 - The
Youth Line is a phone line for youth in Ontario, Canada:
You are not alone! You can call the Lesbian Gay Bi Youth Line at 1-800-268-YOUTH
(1-800-268-9688) across Ontario, or (416) 962-YOUTH (962-9688)
in the 416/905 local calling area.
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all GLBT Resource Directories. - The "Proteus"
Super-Search System is recommended (See also Proteus
Original). - Best Search Engine on Proteus is:
Google! If you
are searching for a string of word together, such as a title, forget not
to place what is sought in quotation marks. Example: "Death by Denial". -
Bing Search by MSN is also a good search engine. For all types of search engines, see Wikipedia listing. - Search
the QRD.
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The
development of this GBLT information web-pages was made possible through
the collaboration of Richard Ramsay (Professor, Faculty of Social Work,
University of Calgary) and Pierre Tremblay (independent researcher, writer,
and GLBT children/youth advocate) who both recognize that often needed
social changes occur as the result of knowledge availability and dissemination.
Graphics
are compliments of Websight West. The Synergy Centre donated computer/Internet
time to facilitate the construction of this GLBT information site.
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The
information made available on this web-page does not represent all the
relevant information available on the Internet, nor in professional journals
and in other publications. Nonetheless, a wealth of information on GLB
suicide problems has been made available.
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web-page was constructed to supply a spectrum of information to individuals
who may be seeking to understand one or more of the many gay, lesbian,
bisexual, and transgender issues.
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