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The evidence indicates that homosexually oriented males account for more than half of male youth suicide problems, but mainstream suicidologists generally continue to ignore this aspect of the problem. Information about lesbian youth suicide problems is included, as is other generally unrecognized factors possibly associated with youth suicide problems.
It is hoped that
your exploration of the site lead to positive outcomes for the ongoing
victims of the traditional Better be Dead
Than Gay social ideology. Unfortunately, many
professionals have had a history of abusing, harming and/or ignoring
these young individuals. They have also been ignoring the high risk
status of many other adolescents targeted for abuse in schools and elsewhere
because they are "presumed to be homosexual," usually on the basis of gender
nonconformity. A 2004 research summary.
2007 Conference Alert - The Homosexuality Factor in Suicidality: Heterosexual Identified Individuals. - Conference Presentations by P. Temblay & R. Ramsay.
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(The Advocate, May 4, 2007) Young R, Sweeting H, West P (2006). Prevalence of deliberate self harm and attempted suicide within contemporary Goth youth subculture: longitudinal cohort study. BMJ, 6;332(7549): 1058-61. Epub 2006 Apr 13. PubMed Abstract. Full Text. Commentaries: "Self harm in Goth youth subculture: Conclusion relates only to small sample." - "Self harm in Goth youth subculture: Study merely reinforces popular stereotypes." - Other Responses. - Goth subculture may protect vulnerable children. - Related Comments: "While I was never a self-harmer, I was definitely suicidal as a teenager, and have had suicidal tendencies throughout my whole life up until today... While I guess being goth reflected my depression, it didn't abate or help it after becoming goth, as the study suggests it did for self-harmers." "What is Goth? ...the goth scene has a large proportion of gays/bisexuals, and followers of non-mainstream religions and views..." - GayGothBoys.Tribe.Net: " Pinhey TK, Millman SR (2004). Asian/Pacific Islander Adolescent Sexual Orientation and Suicide Risk in Guam. American Journal of Public Health, 94(7): 1204-1206. (Abstract) Full Text: PDF Download. The Odds for GB Males Attempting Suicide in the Past year is About Five Times Greater than Odds For Other Males. Estimated by Web Page Author: Risk Ratio = 3.2 - 43.5% of GB males attempted suicide, versus 13.5% for other males. For all Males: 14.5%. 3.5% of 674 males studied = GB Males O'Donnell
L, O'Donnell C, Wardlaw DM, Stueve A (2004).
2003: Research
into the needs of young people in Northern Ireland
Warner J, McKeown E, et al. (2004:
Related
Article, Summary).
Qin P, Agerbo
E, Mortensen PB (2003)
"...registered
[same-sex] partners included as a separate
category
Note:
This is a First-Time Research Result! Costa Rica Study Suicidio en la población homosexual costarricense (Translation). |
Estudio
alerta sobre intentos de suicidio por discriminación gay
según encuesta exploratoria en población costarricense
(Translation):
Una investigación en población homosexual costarricense
lanzó una campanada de alerta sobre intentos suicidas por
causa
de la discriminación y rechazo por su orientación sexual.
Investigación en 200 homosexuales halló hasta un 27% de
intentos suicidas.
Rechazo familiar y social, problemas de pareja y
soledad son principales causas.
Crosscurrents
- Winter 2004/05: Better
dead than queer:
Youth
suicide and discrimination in a heterosexual world.
Suicidality & Homosexualities: Are we part of the problem or solution? (PDF Download)
We Belong - Producer: Joe Wilson
"This is the story of two rural teens who had the courage
to stand up to bigotry and intolerance in their schools –
and the determination to tell their stories to the world..."
No Sex, Please, We’re Gay Teens:.
GLBT Youth Being Harmed?
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Gays and lesbians in the Muslim community are quietly shattering one of the final taboos of Islam (Globe & Mail, 2003). Saleem Malik attempted suicide twice before he turned 18. Growing up in Lahore, Pakistan, the eldest son of devout Muslim parents, he could never come to terms with, let alone explore, his attraction to other men. His best attempts to fake interest in girls failed to impress his peers, who began to bully the self-described "effeminate" man. "It was easy for other kids to practise kick-boxing on me," recalls Mr. Malik, now 25. In 1992, he tried to hang himself from the ceiling fan in his room. If it was a cry for help, it fell on hostile ears since suicide is a haram - religious wrong - in Islamic law. "My dad's reaction was really bad - he beat me. I was frustrated with my own life. I had no one to talk to, not even my own parents." In 1997, after a disastrous infatuation with a high-school friend - who later committed suicide after being forced into an arranged marriage - Mr. Malik tried to take his life one more time. Again, he faced the wrath of his parents, who didn't understand the reason for his depression. Today in Halifax, where he is studying tourism and hotel management... |
The paper, "Does your school track the suicidal student?" (The Clearing House, November/December, 2001: 92-5) by David Helsel begins with:"Jared was a troubled teenager. He attended a large modern public middle school in an Ohio city. Although his school had no formal crisis management team, many of his teachers and friends and his counselor all agreed, after his suicide, that he had given them ample warning signs. Jared endured abuse in a family setting of domestic violence and alcoholism. Branded a sexual misfit at school, he did his best to cope with his gender confusion and poor academic performance. He let others know of his despair but could not convince them of his pain. On his last day he told his closest friend, Tony, that he could not endure anymore and that he would end his life that evening after school. Tony had heard those words before but Jared had never acted on them. So there seemed little reason to believe him now. Having given his last warning, Jared went home after school and shot himself" (92).
Gabriel Rotello N/A (Alternate Link) (The Advocate, January 16, 01): "In speaking to PFLAG chapters over the years, I have met several parents of gay kids who committed suicide, and their refrain is always sadly similar: 'If only we had known. Why didn’t we send the right signals to our children, telling them we would have loved them no matter what?'"
Barden, Connie (2004). Lesbian and Gay Youths at Risk: Providers must be more open minded about sexual orientation. American Journal of Nursing, 104(10): 13. "I will never forget the day that a physician colleague and I were chatting about his four children. “I’ll be happy with anything my kids do with their lives,” he said, “just as long as they don’t turn out gay. If I found out one was gay, I think I’d shoot myself.” Stunned, I remained silent. This colleague, who has known and respected me for years, assumed his comment was innocuous. I was hurt but not devastated. But how do such comments affect young people? ... An article published in School Administrator in February 2000 reported that gay-related name-calling (for example, “faggot” or “dyke”) occurs an average of 26 times daily on middle and high school campuses—and that many students harassed in this way identify themselves as heterosexual."
Our Gay Voice: "Most Persians in Southern California have never been exposed to accurate information about homosexuality.Degrading jokes about homosexuality can often be heard in Iranian gatherings. Gay youths (gay refers here to both male and female) growing up in such a homophobic community might find suicide or substance abuse as an escape.
Hatred in the Hallways (2001): Violence and Discrimination Against Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Students in U.S. Schools & Hostile Hallways (2001): Bullying, Teasing, and Sexual Harassment in School: 74% of students say they would be "very upset... if someone called them gay or lesbian." More on American schools: 2004. - Bad days for gay teenagers.
The gay / bisexual boys who have sex with men, their problems (including suicidality, high risk for contracting HIV, etc.) and the related scandalous "silence" about this reality by most researchers and gay community leaders. In Oslo, Norway, a 2003 study reports that for every "1" adolescent girl selling sex, there are 3.5 adolescent boys selling sex.
India: The Deaths of Two Women in Love: "Dead bodies of 2 young women were found at the Satyamangalam forest area, Erode district. They had committed suicide as they could not live apart from each other and they had a homosexual love relationship. They wrote in their heartbreaking letter that they couldn't live apart from each other."
The Phillipines: Suicide attempts among Filipino gays on the rise. - Alarm over high rate of suicide cases among Filipino homosexuals.
France: British Medical Journal - "Within the framework of an exploratory study conducted among young people attending a French annual festival aiming at solidarity with persons living with the HIV, we found a significant difference (p<0.05) in the prevalence of lifetime (at least one) suicide attempts when comparing young MSM with their heterosexual (HS) peers (30% vs. 5.5 %) . These first data on French youth are very similar to those from larger representative studies conducted in other developed countries." Results of larger study given in 2005 "'Le Monde" article: "Les résultats préliminaires du travail de Marc Shelly, médecin de santé publique et responsable du centre de dépistage anonyme et gratuit de l'hôpital parisien Fernand-Widal, font apparaître que, "toutes choses égales par ailleurs" - âge, lieu de résidence, niveau d'études, catégorie socioprofessionnelle, structure familiale parentale, modes de vie (couple ou célibat) -, les jeunes homosexuels ont treize fois plus de risque de faire une tentative de suicide que les jeunes hétérosexuels. Ces résultats confirment les chiffres issus des études américaines, canadiennes et australiennes : elles aboutissent, chez les homosexuels, à des chiffres de "sursuicidalité" variant de six à treize..." [When controlling for many factors, homosexually oriented males in Paris are 13 times more likely to have attempted suicide than heterosexually oriented males.] Two related "Le Monde" Articles: Guillaume "n'arrivait pas à parler", alors, à 17 ans, il a craqué. Marc Shelly, médecin de santé publique, responsable du centre de dépistage anonyme et gratuit de l'hôpital Fernand-Widal: "Ils semblent se considérer comme des personnes de moindre qualité". NOTE: Suicide studies and suicide prevention efforts in France, as well as elsewhere, have generally ignored all issues related to homosexuality. When the people at greatest risk for problems are ignored in prevention efforts, the result will be: maximizing the casualties in this segment of the population. Why this unspoken objective/outcome has been a rule in mainstream suicidology - dominated by 'mental health' professionals who once decreed that homosexual people should not exist and therefore should be 'cured' - should be studied.
Austria: The above French study suggests that one in three males who attempts suicide are homosexually oriented (Suicide : les jeunes gays premiers concernés). A Canadian study (random sample) reported that, for serious suicide attempts, about 62% of male suciide attempters would be homosexually oriented (PubMed Abstract). An Austrian study (PubMed Abstract) suggests that about 50% of suicide attempters, both male and female, are homosexually oriented.
How Times Change: "It's a sad story. Five years ago, 19-year-old Jim Wheeler took his own life because he couldn't deal with being the only gay person he knew existed in his rural Pennsylvania town. To Jim, Lebanon was a horrible, lonely place where the local therapist told him gayness was an unpardonable sin. It was the pinnacle of farm-town small-minded America, its idyllic beauty barely masking an undercurrent of intolerance and fear. Jim couldn't handle it. It ate away at him until, even as his own parents reached out with love and support, he crumbled. Jim's story is told in the documentary film Jim In Bold, airing on PBS and MTV in 2003..."
Gay, Bisexual Women Take More Risks Than Gay Men. - Lesbian and Bi Women More Likely to Engage in Risky Behavior, Study Finds. - Gay & Bi Women Greater Risk Takers. - US Study: Lesbian and bi women more likely to engage in risky behavior.
The impact of transphobia on HIV risk behaviors among male-to-female transgenders in San Francisco (PDF Download): Focus Group (N = 48) & Cross-Sectional Sample (N = 332), most having had a commercial sex work history: 29% reported having attempted suicide, with another 15% having experienced suicidal ideation.
Largest Ever Study of Anti-LGBT Harassment in Schools Shows the Problem is Widespread, Dangerous and Preventable: "The in-depth companion survey found that school campuses in California are hostile climates for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) students and gender non-conforming students. Two in every three LGBT students reported harassment based on sexual orientation, and 47% of LGBT students experienced repeated harassment. Almost half of their peers agree that their school is not safe for LGBT students. These findings are supported by the fact that 91% of all students report hearing their peers use slurs about sexual orientation and more than 40% reported hearing teachers making such negative comments or slurs. In addition, 27% of students reported being harassed because they weren’t “masculine enough” or “feminine enough,” and more than half of all students said their schools are unsafe for boys who aren’t as masculine as other boys."
Are lesbians, gay men, bisexual people, and transgendered people more suicidal that others??? Presentation by Anthony D'Augelli. PDF Download for PowerPoint Presentation. - "I thought of suicide once. I nearly committed it. I wanted it to look like an accident..." - HIV prevalence, risk behaviors, health care use, and mental health status of transgender persons: implications for public health intervention: "We recruited transgender persons through targeted sampling, respondent-driven sampling, and agency referrals; 392 male-to-female and 123 female-to-male transgender persons were interviewed and tested for HIV... Sixty-two percent of the male-to-female and 55% of the female-to-male transgender persons were depressed; 32% of each population had attempted suicide." Free download of paper is available.
Suicide Research (Scotland): Hutchison C, Porter S, De Voil S (2003). Live to Tell: Finding of a Study of Suicidal Thoughts, Feelings and Behaviours Amongst Young Gay and Bisexual Men in Edinburgh. Scotland: Gay Men’s Health - LGBT Youth Scotland. Internet: http://www.lgbtyouth.org.uk/portalbase/pages/download.aspx?locationId=550deae3-11c0-46c9-865a-d38510a7ab6f . (Download Page) - http://www.mrsite.co.uk/usersitesv/pctherapy.org.uk/wwwroot/USERIMAGES/livetotellpdf.pdf . - Craig Hutchison's Web Site.
Research highlights: 95 Gay/Bi Males aged 15-26 (Average age = 20.8 years). 28% of respondents had at some point deliberately injured themselves with no suicidal intent. This compares to 2% of men in the general population.. 54% of respondents had seriously considered taking their own life, compared to 13% of men in the general population who have ever considered suicide. 51% of respondents who had previously considered suicide now no longer felt suicidal. However, 15% of respondents still seriously considered suicide at least once a month. 27% of young gay/bisexual men have attempted suicide compared to 4% of the general population. Suicide attempts were most common in those young gay/bisexual men aged 14 to 20. 58% of those who had attempted suicide made only one attempt. 35% had made three or more attempts. 23% made five or more attempts. 54% of respondents who had attempted suicide had at some point deliberately injured themselves without wanting to take their own life.
Rosario, M. et al. (2005). Psychological Distress Following Suicidality Among Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Youths: Role of Social Relationships. Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 34(2): 149–161. Link to Abstract.
Excerpt: "Youths between the ages of 14 and 21 years were recruited from 3 gay-focused community organizations (85%) and 2 public-college GLB student organizations (15%) in New York City. Approximately 80% of the youths approached for recruitment participated in the study... Of the 156 youths interviewed at baseline, 35% had attempted suicide, 23% had seriously thought about suicide but had not attempted, and 42% had neither attempted nor ideated at any time in their lives. Of the youths who had attempted suicide, many had attempted more than once (M = 3.76, SD = 7.56). The last of these attempts was an average of 3.16 years (SD = 2.88) before the baseline assessment, with 31% having attempted suicide in the year prior to the study. The youths were an average of 15.28 years of age (SD = 2.86) at their most recent suicide attempt. Of the 79 youths who had ever seriously thought about suicide (43 had both ideated and attempted suicide and 36 had ideated but never attempted suicide), 39% reported 1 or 2 episodes of ideation, 35% reported between 3 and 10 episodes, and 26% had more than 10 episodes of suicidal ideation. The youths’ last suicidal ideation had occurred an average of 1.87 years ago (SD = 2.05), with 53% having an episode of ideationago (SD = 2.05), with 53% having an episode of ideation within the year prior to the study. The youths were an average of 16.49 years of age (SD = 2.35) at the time of their most recent suicidal ideation. The suicide attempts of the youths were serious. Of the 55 youths who reported suicide attempts, 93%reported a specific method for their most recent attempt, including cutting (32%), ingesting pills or chemicals (65%), jumping (8%), or some other method (16%). Further, 51% reported that their suicide attempt required medical care, including 33% who were hospitalized. GLB youths who received medical care for their attempt did not differ significantly from thosewho did not receive care on any study variable, including psychological distress and social desirability. Interestingly, social desirability was unrelated to suicidality, further suggesting that this sample of GLB youths accurately reported their history of suicidality. within the year prior to the study. The youths were an average of 16.49 years of age (SD = 2.35) at the time of their most recent suicidal ideation. The suicide attempts of the youths were serious. Of the 55 youths who reported suicide attempts, 93%reported a specific method for their most recent attempt, including cutting (32%), ingesting pills or chemicals (65%), jumping (8%), or some other method (16%). Further, 51% reported that their suicide attempt required medical care, including 33% who were hospitalized. GLB youths who received medical care for their attempt did not differ ignificantly from thosewho did not receive care on any study variable, including psychological distress and social desirability. Interestingly, social desirability was unrelated to suicidality, further suggesting that this sample of GLB youths accurately reported their history of suicidality..."
Kenagy GP 2005. Transgender health: findings from two needs assessment studies in Philadelphia. Health and Social Work, 30(1): 19-26. Link to Abstract.
From Abstract: "A total of 182 people responded to a face-to-face interview or self-administered mail survey: 113 male-to-female individuals and 69 female-to-male individuals. About three-fifths of respondents had engaged in unprotected sexual activity during the past 12 months. The risk for HIV infection from unprotected sex was significantly higher among respondents of color than among white respondents. About one-third (30.1 percent) of respondents had attempted suicide."
Excerpt: "Suicide among transgender people has rarely been studied. Although researchers have speculated that transsexuals are prone to suicide (Block & Tessler, 1973; Levine, 1978; Wicks, 1977), only two empirical studies were found that asked transgender people about suicide (Clements, Marx, Guzman, Ikeda, & Katz, 1998; Xavier, 2000). A study of 515 transgender people in San Francisco found that 32 percent of the sample had attempted suicide (Clements et al.). The percentage of transgender people who had attempted suicide was lower (16 percent) among a Washington, DC, sample (N = 252), however, 35 percent had experienced suicidal ideation and among them, 64 percent had thought about suicide because of gender issues (Xavier)... When asked "Have you ever attempted suicide?" about one-third (30.1 percent) of the 176 respondents who answered the question said "yes." Among the 111 MTFs who answered the question, 32.4 percent had attempted suicide; among the 65 FTMs 26.2 percent had attempted suicide. Respondents who had attempted suicide were asked: "Did you attempt suicide because you are transgendered?" Of the 49 people who answered the question, about two-thirds (67.3 percent) said "yes." Among the 32 MTFs who answered the question, three-quarters (75.0 percent) said being transgender was the reason they attempted suicide. Among the 17 FTMs who answered the question, more than half (52.9 percent) said being transgender was the reason they attempted suicide." Note: Most (68%) were African American.
Inquest finds asylum refusal was motive for gay Iranian's suicide.
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Alerts! ....A 2002 Re-Evaluation of Massachusetts 1995/97 & Vermont 1995/97 Youth Risk Behavior Surveys: Bisexually Active Adolescents Most At Risk. See related information in 2003 PowerPoint Presentation by Pierre Tremblay & Richard Ramsay.
Is it possible that some researchers would behave somewhat unethically with respect to the "at risk" suicidality of homosexually oriented males? Coming Soon!
David
Hurcombe, London, age 17: Suicide
Advocate
Article
Another
example of a suicide linked to greatly feared "gay issue" coming into a
boy's life.
Marcus Wayman (Related
Items: 1,
2)
Stigma (horror?) related
to "gay" as a new invention:
From
Common to a Rarity
How many Males Know 'it'
but don't like word "gay" or "bisexual"? More
than many would believe!
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Becker JB (2001). Sexual orientation data collection and progress toward
Healthy People 2010. American Journal of Public Health, 91(6): 876-82.
""…YRBSS [Youth Risk Behavior Survey Surveillance] data from the localities that measure sexual orientation show that whatever the dimension of sexual orientation measured (sexual orientation identity, sexual behavior, or sexual attraction), sexual minority youths have higher rates of suicide attempts, victimization in school violence, drug and alcohol abuse, early onset of sexual behavior, eating disorders, and teenage pregnancy that other youths. As surveys of adolescents in Connecticut, Wisconsin, Oregon, and Seattle have demonstrated, even a measure of sexual orientation as indirect as perceived homosexual sexual orientation elicits disturbing correlations with deleterious health outcomes." (p. 878) When adolescents are assumed to be homosexual by other adolescents, they are treated accordingly. Click this link to see the results for the Oregon 1999 Youth Risk Behavior Survey. These youth are harassed on the basis of "presumed homosexual orientation," and they are at the greatest risk for the more serious suicide behaviors. |
Training
In Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender Psychology
California
School Of Professional Psychology
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International University
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Francisco Campus
The LGBT Mental Health Syllabus (By Group for the Advancement of Psychiatry: GAP, 2007).
Eight modules: History of Psychiatry and Homosexuality. Taking a Sexual History with LBGT Patients.
Psychological Development & Life Cycle. Psychotherapy. Medical and Mental Health.
Transgender. Intersex. Diversity / People of Color.
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English
Translation of Abstract for the 2000 Québec Study "Mort Ou
Fif": Excerpts
The
book begins with the story of two Quebec boys who committed suicide.
It
is now available in English: "Dead
Boys Can't Dance:
Sexual
Orientation, Masculinity, and Suicide" par Michel Dorais (2004)
See
also: "Homosexualité & suicide" par E. Verdier et J.M. Fridion
(2001) - Book
Review 1. 2.
Le
risque de suicide chez les jeunes à orientation sexuelle non conventionnelle
par
Jean-Marie Firdion, Eric Verdier (2003). PDF
Download.
Plus:
Death
by Denial: Studies of Suicide in Gay and Lesbian Teenagers
Edited
by Gary Remafedi (1994) - Introduction
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Experience Suicide Problems They
know that I'm here at UCSB, doing my Ph.D. in sociology... (Note: White Print & White Background)
I have heard so many stories of Asian American gays, lesbians and bisexuals
who feel left out of Asian American communities, that they become ashamed
of being Asian American, or that they commit suicide because they don't
know of any other Asian American gays, lesbians or bisexuals. From the
Asian
Cultural Diversity Roundtable, Session 3: (Alternate
Link) Depression and Suicidal Ideation among Young Asian Americans
(April 12, 2000): "Because gay and lesbian youth in general face extremely
high suicide rates, Asian American gay or lesbian youth may be at extra
risk. Many will not consider coming out to their families because the cultural
stigma is so strong." - A
South Asian Love Story. Rickey Williams:
Rickey committed suicide. He jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and
plunged 220 feet to his death. He was 28 years old... Rickey understood
the tragedy of black men who were and are dying in our communities.
Just last summer, after visiting New York for the Black Gay Research
Summit and the annual Pride In The City weekend, he signed onto an open
letter to black gay men asking them, us to do something, anything about
the AIDS epidemic in our midst. Forty-six percent of black men who have
sex with men in some cities may be HIV positive. But who gives a damn,
the letter asked... I know too many black men who are depressed and
lonely, too many black men who have contemplated killing themselves,
and too many black men who have actually attempted suicide. It's not
easy being a black man. It's not easy being a black man who loves black
men... From Comments: "My first boyfriend committed suicide and thats
such an awful feeling to be that close to someone and not know the
turmoil inside." Homosexualité au Maroc:
L'homosexualité ne se vit pas de la même manière partout... Il existe
malheureusement encore des régions du monde où le coming-out "n'existe
pas". Kal28, âgé de 29 ans en 2004, vit dans une petite ville du
maghreb. Son coming-out n'est que virtuel, via le net, ne pouvant pas
l'annoncer chez lui...Eh bien moi, je ne suis pas européen ! Je suis
marocain ! Dans un pays arabomusulman ! Le coming-out pour moi, c'est
comme se jeter dans les enfers ! Ni famille, ni amis, ni personne ici
ne pourra comprendre ce que c'est d'être homo... ! Alors... ne trouvant
aucune lueur d'espoir, en 1997, alors que j'avais 22 ans, et en plus du
stress quotidien qui gonfle terriblement quand on est déjà mal dans sa
peau, j'ai tenté de me suicider... et j'ai frôlé la mort... Etre gay en Algérie:
Bonjour , moi c'est pinou ,je suis algerien ,j'ai 26 ans mon probleme
est que je suis gay et j'en souffre beaucoup car je vis dans une
societé qui ne tolére pas l'homosexualité,la séxualité est un tabou
dans les société musulmane alors imaginer etre homosexuele dans ses
société... Aujourd'hui j'ai décidé d'en parler et de me confie mon
secret pour la premier foie de ma vie car j'en peut plus et je pense
beaucoup au suicide pour en finir et s'est aussi un autre péché dans
notre religion l'islam mais j'en ai pas d'autre choix car l'enfer je le
connais déja,mais j'aime trop ma famille pour le leurs faire du mal et
leurs causer du chagrin ,mais croyez moi top au tard je passerais a
l'acte... Eritrea:
BtM: What is the problem facing individual gays, governmental
homophobic behaviour, as well as discrimination? M: Some of them who I
meet are HIV positive, they don't have any awareness as gays that they
should use a condom, they think condoms are only for heterosexuals.
Most of them are in confusion, they don't have interest to accept who
they are. One of my close friends goes to church to get cured. Another
one killed himself a year ago. But, no one, not even his family knew on
what grounds he committed suicide. Only me and other friends of mine
knew. Death hangs over Somali queers (Alternate Link): Faro, is one of the leaders of Queer Somalia, a community based organisation based in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. He makes frequent visits to Somalia to make contact with small groups of queers there and on a recent visit he sent back startling information that shows that for gay and lesbian people in Somalia the issue of death looms large. Whether through suicide following pressure from families or via loosely applied Islamic law that is uncontrolled due to the lack of a central government, their greatest fear is death—a sentence that can be brought upon them just for being homosexual, or for being perceived to be homosexual. "Sensei, I Slashed My Wrists Last Night." (The Language Teacher, 1998) "Mike, I slashed my wrists last night," Kaoru announced, "But don't worry. I'm okay now. I didn't cut that hard." Shock? Confusion? Anger? What was I supposed to feel? More importantly, what was I supposed to do? We talked long into the night, and even when my head was falling from exhaustion, I was too terrified to hang up. This particular story, at least, has a happy ending. Over the following four months, Kaoru came out to family and friends, founded a sexuality discussion group at the university, and began volunteering for gay and lesbian cultural projects. Kaoru's struggles are far from over, of course - rebuilding a life can take years - but now the challenge is being met with optimism and confidence. - Attempted suicide, psychological health and exposure to harassment among Japanese homosexual, bisexual or other men questioning their sexual orientation recruited via the internet. - Mental health and school-based verbal abuse among Japanese gay and bisexual men (Related PowerPoint Download). Cultural Odyssey in association with the National Performance Network and the NQAF present: FAGGOT, a one-man multi-character performance, is the story of Michael, a boy who, daunted by his mother, Rita, run the gamut of attempted suicide, rape, alcoholism, homelessness and prostitution. From a homoerotic rite of passage into manhood, through spiritual warfare, to self-salvation, Michael inevitably learns what it means and costs to be both black and gay. South
Asian Atlantans Feel Burden of Model Minority Myth: "Career choice
isn't the only land mine within the community. Marrying outside the ethnic
circle and being homosexual both clearly fall outside acceptable behavior.
Aditya Kar, a native of India who now lives in Atlanta, is gay. When he
returned home to tell his father this, he literally didn't have the words
to break the news. "I was talking in Bengali to my father when I had to
use the word 'gay,' but there's no equivalent word in Bengali to get the
full meaning," he says. "I had to use the three exact words in English:
'I am gay.' " Kar, 36, says he once contemplated suicide because he thought
something was wrong with him. His story was featured in a documentary about
gay South Asians, "For Straights Only," by Atlanta filmmaker Vismita Gupta-Smith.
"If I had seen one South Asian face in my childhood or teenage [years]
who said, 'I'm South Asian and I'm gay and it's OK,' I would not have thought
of ending my life and probably used it in a more productive way," Kar says. In Sri Lanka, sexual orientation puts gays at risk: In her native Sri Lanka, a land of sandy beaches licked by the emerald-hued waters of the Indian Ocean, Rosanna Flamer-Caldera almost lost her wrestling match with homosexuality when she attempted suicide in her teens. With no one to turn to in a country that considers homosexuality a criminal offence, death seemed the better alternative. Attempting suicide, however, wound up saving her... Laguna
Beach Beating Opens Closed Asian Door: "Homosexuality: A Growing
Orange County Group is Trying to Overcome the Gay Taboo in Vietnamese-American
Families... Pham, who is not gay, said he started the group after
his gay brother, a Catholic who could not accept his sexuality, committed
suicide at age 28, and after his Vietnamese girlfriend came out as lesbian."
- Malyasia:
Homosexuality And The Church Dialogue: "They are living a double life
? putting up a happy mask upfront in the church and society, but privately
suffering from shame and guilt because of their homosexual inclinations.
The Truth About Black Teen Suicide: ""I didn't think that African-American teenagers thought about suicide," my teacher said, her eyebrows drawn together in confusion... Like my teacher, I guess I thought suicide was more of a problem with White teens. Teen suicides talked about in the media were always White. If Blacks of any age were committing suicide, I had never heard about it in the news or on TV. Suicide never came up in a conversation with my friends, and my parents never talked about it... When it comes to the motivations to commit suicide, Ross said, "there is no difference between us." Just like White teens, Black teens have had exposure to conflicts and sexual identity issues." African-American suicide: a cultural paradox: "Risk factors for Black suicide include: male sex, early adulthood, substance abuse, psychiatric disorders, family or interpersonal conflict, antisocial behavior, and homosexuality.' - The influence of dual-identity development on the psychosocial functioning of African-American gay and bisexual men. Life and Death in Queer Korea: "I consider myself lucky, though. Between 1997 and 1999, three of my gay friends in South Korea committed suicide. In May 1998, Oh disclosed his homosexuality to his family. They immediately rejected him and expelled him from their home. After living and suffering on the streets for months, and at one point sleeping in an office, Oh killed himself. The other two went to Seoul National University, which is South Korea's Harvard or Yale. One was in Law School; the other was a graduate student in biology. Their success in society was "guaranteed." However, when they came to the age of marriage, they both faced a brutal dilemma. Neither wanted to marry. But they also didn't want to disown their families and disappoint their parents. So, they chose to kill themselves. One in 1997, the other in 1999. No funerals were held for these three young men: their families considered them "bad" sons..." Guyana: Letter to Editor by Vidyaratha Kissoon: "Some of the suicide cases in Berbice felt they were homosexual"** (Stabroek News, August 2, 2001): "The continued condemnation of homosexuality in Guyana has severe consequences. The recent survey of Suicide in Region 5 & Region 6 revealed that 8.9% of the suicides felt they were homosexual. Men and boys who are sexually abused are scared to report because they feel that they will be labelled as homosexual and be condemned as a result. [Homosexuality] legal but not accepted (Eritrea): "Some of them who I meet are HIV positive, they don't have any awareness as gays that they should use a condom, they think condoms are only for heterosexuals. Most of them are in confusion, they don't have interest to accept who they are. One of my close friends goes to church to get cured. Another one killed himself a year ago. But, no one, not even his family knew on what grounds he committed suicide. Only me and other friends of mine knew..." Death hangs over somali queers (Somalia) (Alternate Link): "He makes frequent visits to Somalia to make contact with small groups of queers there and on a recent visit he sent back startling information that shows that for gay and lesbian people in Somalia the issue of death looms large. Whether through suicide following pressure from families or via loosely applied Islamic law that is uncontrolled due to the lack of a central government, their greatest fear is death - a sentence that can be brought upon them just for being homosexual, or for being perceived to be homosexual..." Child
of 10% - by Alex Hoa
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Even in the Tolerant Nordic Countries Young Gay People Face Violence. |
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(Clinical Health Psychology, University College, London) explores the reasons why many bisexual and lesbian women are self-harmers. |
to Un-Safe Sex: depressed gay men may be attempting a "soft" form of suicide by having unsafe sex |
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Survey Sept 1 to Oct 31 - Results Published January, 2001 Survey Results Highlights" |
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For Suicide Problems. Results Of 30+ Studies. (In Four Major Categories) +/- 30% GLB Youth = Suicide Attempters |
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More At Risk For Suicide Attempt Problems? At Even Greater Risk for Most Serious Suicide Attempts. Study Summaries. |
for Minnesota School Sample Attempted Suicide:28.1% Gay/Bi Males; 4.2% Heterosexual Males - By age of 15 to 18, +30% GLB Kids = Attempters. |
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for Random Sample of 750 Males aged 18 - 27: 62.5% of Suicide Attempters = GB Males - Related 1998 Demographic Paper |
G/B Males at Great Risk for Factors Associated With Suicide Problems: 'Colorado' Paper (1997) |
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"Homosexuality" Information from Male Adolescents / Youth may have GREAT ERRORS! |
Behavior Survey Studies with "Homosexuality" Information are on: One Web Page |
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Problems & Related Initiatives Research Data & InfoLinks |
Suicide Problems? Research Data & InfoLinks |
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Suicide Problems Part 1, 2 |
In England, Scotland & Ireland? |
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Including the Most "at Risk" GLB Kids Generally Ignored by GLB Communities and their Leaders. |
A Suicide Note Illustrates this, as does an Australian Study. Examples of Self- Harm, Suicide Attempts, anduicides. |
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An Edmonton Gay(?) Youth Commits Suicide. |
A Calgary Gay Youth Attempts Suicide. |
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Canyon: Bruce's Mother, Roz, expresses her Feelings |
A Photo History |
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Kurt Cobain Bi, Biphobia, The Binary & ??? |
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Two Lesbian Youth Attempt and Finally Commit Suicide In England. |
Risk for Factors Associated With Suicidality: 'Colorado' Paper (1997) |
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Conference Paper: The Homosexuality Factor In The Youth Suicide Problem. Summary of Situation to 1995 Problems with Psychiatrists? |
At The Greatest Risk for Suicide Problems? See: Section of Paper & Chapter of a Book. Why is Issue Still Ignored? White Racism? |
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Bisexual Factor in the Youth Suicide Problem (1994). Links to 6 Chapters and Information. - Contents & Excerpts. - The Author. |
Associated with almost 40% of the more serious suicide attempts. The 1995 Seattle YRBS Study. Lethal Homophobia Effect ? |
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to be addressed at: The U.S. Department of Health (CDC / NIMH) and at Suicide & Life-Threatening Behavior (American Association of Suicidology) |
'Professionals' and Others. "Death by Denial" & Mainstream Suicidology, Family Physicians, Social Workers, Psychiatrists, GLB Communities, Public Schools also as a part of "The killing Fields", and Media Problems. |
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will help? The Oct. 1998 Reno Conference. New Web Page - with "Deadly" July '99 News |
Social Work been...? Answer |
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Preventing Suicide (2001) includes gay and lesbian individuals but...? |
Suicide Problem? A New Page |
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Education 21 Subject Categories |
Web Page with Links to Major GLBT Information Web Sites & Search Engines |
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Related Violence Sexual Abuse of Boys, Male Youth Gangs, and Male Prisons |
At risk for problems, including survival prostitution and suicide. Male Youth Prostitution Resources |
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Homophobia Linked to Repressed Homosexuality? How large could the male homosexual closet be? |
General Information. Links to documents containing information about lesbians, adults, and people of color. |
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Supplement For Journalists, Activists, and Advocates for the Welfare of Gay/Bi Male youth. |
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